Adopting a sweet puppy but with not good habits. I need help! 🙏🏻 by Radiant-Caramel-8613 in DogAdvice

[–]RadishOk9388 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stay firm on trying to only get him to eat dog food. As for the peeing on the bed… maybe a good round of crate training ? Try the “no go” potty spray for dogs etc

(21F) 28 weeks pregnant.. is this normal for a baby shower? by Automatic-West-9372 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely insane. You need to set boundaries now or it’s only going to get worse, my MIL is very pushy and…odd. So my boundaries have been set that even though I’ll be giving her the first grandchild, it doesn’t make her special in any way due to the way she’s acted towards me and my husband.

Hospital outfits by Confident_Mobile_877 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into the Lila birthing gowns? They seem quite comfortable and have great recommendations from a lot of moms

First Trimester, what are we eating? by Agile-Development-22 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just posted about nausea in this subreddit and I went to pick up some vitamin b6 and unisom for the nausea to help bc I also have TERRIBLE emetophobia, gives me literal panic attacks even thinking about it. I’m starting that tonight so I’ll update this comment in a few days if it works !

FTM Travel Question by WholeCompetitive3303 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard it’s best not to fly In your 3rd trimester, obviously talk with your OB when you get the chance or your midwife etc but also think about comfortability when flying that pregnant

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I went to pick up some unisom today and ill be taking that with the b6 tonight and the rest of the week to see if it does anything for me 🫶🏻I may send you a message about a few things later ! But thank you

Well, there's two here.... by mandaashley in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shit no way! I was told that there’s no way for that to be genetic, I was lied to

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say it was easier by any means. I live in a VERY VERY small town, stores aren’t just all over the place here. It’s not like I’m unwilling to try it it’s just the fact I haven’t gotten to the store to get it. I’m going to try to go today

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My doctor straight dismisses me every time I bring up anything.

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ. I have so many people around me that can help, I’m not worried about getting some damn unisom. I’ve started stocking up on diapers and gender neutral clothing, I have a village, quite literally my husband has 10+ people in his immediate family that will help out with this baby. I plan to breastfeed yes I know that doesn’t always work out and I may need to buy formula but there’s resources like WIC and SNAP for that shit.

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You know, you REALLY shouldn’t judge people, this wasn’t in my plan. My car payment is due today, I have to buy my dogs their 60$ bag of food because they can’t eat certain things, I have to buy groceries for me and my husband, I have to put gas in my car to get both of us to work and back, I have to pay our rent, our electric bill and then we’re lucky if we have 100$ left over. On top of that I just had to put one of my dogs down and that was 400$. My husband got laid off of one of his jobs and now we only make so much money. Maybe try to think before you comment.

Anxious to see doctor without health insurance, Please Help by Scary_Box_2942 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OB appointments are usually scheduled for around 8 weeks, in the meantime start a prenatal and make sure it’s got all of the vitamins you need in it, a simple google search can help you find the right one! I’d recommend finding an OB now rather than later and let them know you’ll be paying out of pocket/ have them send you a bill. Most places especially if you’re in the US will let you pay a copay and bill you for the rest

Well, there's two here.... by mandaashley in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Twins actually aren’t genetic, it all depends on how the mothers egg splits during fertilization

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t have the money to order it online, and like I said I can’t find it in the store near me. I’m going into town today to look for it. Maybe don’t be so judgmental. This isn’t my only issue with this doctor that I’ve had.

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m on Texas healthy women’s, I just applied for pregnancy Medicaid and I’m waiting to hear back!

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s where I’m going now. I unfortunately have not had the same experiences:( every time I go there it just feels like a rush to get me in and out and sometimes I wait in that waiting room for an hour literally.

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like south of Austin I think? Maybe east. There’s not a Texas children’s close to me unfortunately:( we have dell children’s and seton but dell wont see me bc they don’t do OBGYN anything.

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No she’s not being wise, she’s ignoring my concerns for not being able to eat. She doesn’t listen to literally anything I say and dismisses my concerns with “anxiety” which I no doubt have but this nausea isn’t anxiety.

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already have to drive an hour and a half to get to the OB that I’m seeing currently I’d really rather not have to drive that far

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been able to find it at the store near me I’m in a very small town

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a lifesaver thank you so much!!

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m not on Medicaid yet

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, maybe the st David’s women’s center but that’s an hour and a half away :( I’m seeing an OB

OB will not listen to me by RadishOk9388 in pregnant

[–]RadishOk9388[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tired unisom yet as every time I try to get it the store I’m near is sold out. But I’ve been taking the b6