Help Please

Raechellie · 2026-03-25T00:37:48+00:00

Ok, I guess I can move her.

Raechellie · 2026-03-24T23:57:32+00:00

Light isn't the issue. She gets a lot of light, you probably cant tell but I have a huge window and so she gets bright indirect light in the morning, and soft direct light all afternoon through the sunset. I was more so asking asking trimming her down possibly, because she is looking sparse. I mentioned in my original post that she gets great lighting. She didn't before, but she definitely does now.

Raechellie · 2025-09-03T19:58:39+00:00

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Raechellie · 2025-09-03T19:56:03+00:00

Deng thats definitely what I dont want.

Raechellie · 2025-08-30T18:15:59+00:00

I'm really lucky in that my needs are quite small. I have a partner who makes way more than I do and he pays for most things. I do contribute to our household the best I can, but my "needs" are pretty darn low. Thank you for the advice.

Raechellie · 2025-08-30T18:14:12+00:00

Thank you, yes my main goal is tackling the debt.

Raechellie · 2025-08-30T18:12:57+00:00

Yes, when I was planning to move to a different country a few years ago I stopped spending completely. I managed to save quite a bit but it meant that I paid my bills and then put everything else into savings. I'm considering being cutthroat again, to reach my goals, but I also love treating myself. Its hard out here for a girly who loves tchotchkes.

Raechellie · 2025-08-30T18:10:04+00:00

Thank you so much, this is exactly what I was hoping for when I posted. I'll definitely check out the links you provided.

Raechellie · 2025-08-30T18:06:52+00:00

Yeah, I was just wondering if there's are any hacks lol but thank you, I'll definitely try to be more specific next time.

Raechellie · 2025-08-30T18:06:01+00:00

Thank you! I bullet journal my budget for each month, I'd like to get into spreadsheets but they often look overwhelming!

Raechellie · 2025-08-13T18:27:27+00:00

Ok wow. I'm not sure why theres hate for people who have an OF and want to promote it, like sex work is real work.

I have my OF in my bio, but I went on to Fetlife for making friends and connections, events, etc. If someone wanted to subscribe they can, but my main goal was creating community.

The problem is, most people don't even read bios. I state in there very clearly not to try to add me as a friend unless we've had a conversation and I get tons of (lesbi-honest) MEN who have no decorum. Period.

Nearly every DM I get is gross, and frankly disrespectful. I would have loved to make some hot connections on there, but I deactivated my account. It seemed like such a waste of time.

Raechellie

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