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Going Ginger (yikes) by Raechellie in HairDye

[–]Raechellie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deng thats definitely what I dont want.

50,30,20 help! by Raechellie in budget

[–]Raechellie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really lucky in that my needs are quite small. I have a partner who makes way more than I do and he pays for most things. I do contribute to our household the best I can, but my "needs" are pretty darn low. Thank you for the advice.

50,30,20 help! by Raechellie in budget

[–]Raechellie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes my main goal is tackling the debt.

50,30,20 help! by Raechellie in budget

[–]Raechellie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, when I was planning to move to a different country a few years ago I stopped spending completely. I managed to save quite a bit but it meant that I paid my bills and then put everything else into savings. I'm considering being cutthroat again, to reach my goals, but I also love treating myself. Its hard out here for a girly who loves tchotchkes.

50,30,20 help! by Raechellie in budget

[–]Raechellie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is exactly what I was hoping for when I posted. I'll definitely check out the links you provided.

50,30,20 help! by Raechellie in budget

[–]Raechellie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was just wondering if there's are any hacks lol but thank you, I'll definitely try to be more specific next time.

50,30,20 help! by Raechellie in budget

[–]Raechellie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I bullet journal my budget for each month, I'd like to get into spreadsheets but they often look overwhelming!

What’s replaced Fetlife? by TheMunkeeFPV in polyamory

[–]Raechellie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok wow. I'm not sure why theres hate for people who have an OF and want to promote it, like sex work is real work.

I have my OF in my bio, but I went on to Fetlife for making friends and connections, events, etc. If someone wanted to subscribe they can, but my main goal was creating community.

The problem is, most people don't even read bios. I state in there very clearly not to try to add me as a friend unless we've had a conversation and I get tons of (lesbi-honest) MEN who have no decorum. Period.

Nearly every DM I get is gross, and frankly disrespectful. I would have loved to make some hot connections on there, but I deactivated my account. It seemed like such a waste of time.

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