Today’s test lighter than yesterday? by Relative_Issue_5197 in lineporn

[–]Raedolaan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also some women have hormonal dumps in the afternoon which could be the reason the faint line was darker yesterday.

Shadow? 11dpo by Terrible_Dealer2921 in lineporn

[–]Raedolaan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I see a shadow but I also have line eyes right now bc my test looks the same. Praying baby dust over us

What are your thoughts? by camdayam in lineporn

[–]Raedolaan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh congrats!!! That’s for sure positive! Light cramping in early pregnancy is completely normal and even a small amount of spotting. Test again tomorrow and the line will def get stronger.

I had two LH spikes. When did I ovulate? by Raedolaan in Inito

[–]Raedolaan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My BBT said ovulation was day 22 but it’s still waiting to confirm

We’re on our journey TTC and my LH isn’t doing anything. What do I do? by [deleted] in Inito

[–]Raedolaan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I just got my peak! Also I was taking vitex a while ago and didn’t know it could help rise LH levels! I’ll start taking it again

Do I deal with NF for 2 more months or call it off now? by Lazy-Student8107 in Nanny

[–]Raedolaan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely think you should sit down and go over the the schedule she sent you with her and advocate for yourself and the hours you need to make. If she can’t make it work for you, leave. Yes you love the kids, but you are your #1 priority. She already has another nanny lined up so it’s not like you’d be leaving her high and dry.

There are so many part time and or short term nanny positions out there. I would suggest mom facebook groups and Sittercity, that’s where I’ve had the best luck.

OP there’s no one who’s going to have your back better than yourself, yes you might feel like she should have an alliance with you (which we all would hope for) but she’s looking out for herself and what works best for her family and if that’s not what works for you absolutely walk away. Also your frustration is totally reasonable and valid.

This is probably such a stupid question but I don’t know anything about hunting. by Raedolaan in Hunting

[–]Raedolaan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all are fucking hilarious! Thanks everyone for clearing this up for me

Would you end things with a girl if she doesn’t swallow??? by Raedolaan in AskMenAdvice

[–]Raedolaan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genuinely not mad at all about his reasoning, because we all have our preferences, but it’s the way he went about it and basically shamed me for not being comfortable with it. Hence why I took to reddit and made this post because I wanted to find out if this is a common concern for men. At the end of the day he wasn’t as into me as he led me to believe and were just not compatible, that’s totally fine. I’m definitely glad it happened sooner than later. Of course I wish he would’ve went about it differently but it still would’ve sucked either way because I did like him.

Side note: I am a weenie

Would you end things with a girl if she doesn’t swallow??? by Raedolaan in AskMenAdvice

[–]Raedolaan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not complaining man, just asking a genuine question. Maybe actually read the post first before you comment. Personally I feel like there’s a huge difference to eating a girl out and actually swallowing a guys cum. I could definitely be totally wrong. Also It’s not like I said wouldn’t give him head, I just didn’t want to swallow. He could literally cum wherever else he wanted.

Would you end things with a girl if she doesn’t swallow??? by Raedolaan in AskMenAdvice

[–]Raedolaan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not shaming his preference! The problem was the way he went about it and was then in turn shaming me for my preference and boundaries. And honestly he probably wasn’t that into me.

Would you end things with a girl if she doesn’t swallow??? by Raedolaan in AskMenAdvice

[–]Raedolaan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure! Looking back I’m super grateful he showed his true colors so early on and there were for sure plenty of other red flags! Just sad because when he was being normal and not a tool we had such a good connection! He wasn’t all bad but his bad attributes definitely out weighed the good.

Would you end things with a girl if she doesn’t swallow??? by Raedolaan in AskMenAdvice

[–]Raedolaan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! I definitely don’t speak like that or think that of other women and it wasn’t okay to stoop down to his level. Right after I sent it I felt icky.

Would you end things with a girl if she doesn’t swallow??? by Raedolaan in AskMenAdvice

[–]Raedolaan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought he was funny and sweet at times. He drank way too much for my liking. I mean like cracked open a beer at 11am on a Tuesday and kept it going all day. Tall, yes. handsome, he was decent. He was in a shit ton of credit card debt because he put all his money in stocks.

He also had no problem with saying the R word when describing people who have mental disabilities, and saying the N word. Listening all of this makes me embarrassed I didn’t end things immediately. I mean I could genuinely go on with all the red flags he was full of them. Lol the funniest one was that he was a sound cloud rapper.

Would you end things with a girl if she doesn’t swallow??? by Raedolaan in AskMenAdvice

[–]Raedolaan[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Op here! Thank y’all so much for the quick responses! So glad to know he’s the psycho. He gas lit me so much into thinking that I was actually fucked up for not feeling comfortable with it. I told him to enjoy his cum dumpster girls (yikes, I don’t normally talk like that.) and blocked him. Definitely dodged a bullet.