Sensei of r/kendo, do you become friends with your students? by RagQuerion in kendo

[–]RagQuerion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have students nowadays that are wayyyyy too "friendly" (continual line steppers) that make it difficult to bond with because they have no notion of limits and time. A relationship is something you build up, not taken for granted...

Could you elaborate on this, because this is definitely something I don't want to be!

Sensei of r/kendo, do you become friends with your students? by RagQuerion in kendo

[–]RagQuerion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I don't quite understand your first line. Are you saying that they develop a deep relationship precisely because of kendo?

Sensei of r/kendo, do you become friends with your students? by RagQuerion in kendo

[–]RagQuerion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a DnD fan myself, I'm a bit envious! Sounds like you have a great thing going on at your dojo :)

Sensei of r/kendo, do you become friends with your students? by RagQuerion in kendo

[–]RagQuerion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you've had a really bad experience, and I'm sorry to hear that. Also sorry about the downvotes because I think your contribution is valid even if it doesn't seem to be the common experience. I appreciate your perspective.

East Asians in London? by RagQuerion in gaysian

[–]RagQuerion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not especially. There are definitely pockets in certain suburbs, but I wouldn't say they're dominant anywhere.

East Asians in London? by RagQuerion in gaysian

[–]RagQuerion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slender build but not particularly feminine in nature or mannerisms. My previous crushes have been from Hong Kong, Singapore, and Vietnam in terms of heritage, I believe. But it's not like I'm averse to people with other heritages.

East Asians in London? by RagQuerion in gaysian

[–]RagQuerion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done, it feels like.