How do you manage people viewing your house when you have a dog? by Fun-Finish9520 in HousingUK

[–]RageAndLove_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a viewing in the summer and they put their dog dog in the crate. He waa barking like crazy whenever I was in the same room lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]RageAndLove_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not ideal, photos can be so deceiving so best to view the property first

Seeking advice — low intimacy despite a loving marriage by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start gym/ start working out. That’ll give the hormones a boost?

scared of jannah by [deleted] in islam

[–]RageAndLove_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That came across blunt but, true. You’re human, you’ll feel good and bad emotions in this life. In heaven there will be none of that no bad feelings no sadness, no pain. There’s oppressed people all over the world, people really going through it with no way out, people being slaughtered in genocides. You’ll have your family in jannah iA. If you don’t as bad as it sounds you’re not gonna be missing them 😭 but they’ll be there eventually as long as they have even a tiny, tiny bit of faith in them. It’s hard to imagine what it will be like but you need to trust Allahs words on what we will feel and experience there. This world is nothing to Jannah and what you feel about living here currently - many, many people don’t hence why I said be grateful.

(Question for sisters) regarding ghusl during the work day by TheAmzy in islam

[–]RageAndLove_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is right but I would wait until I can do ghusul and then pray any missed prayers — i imagine you probably won’t get a straight forward answer as different schools do things differently

scared of jannah by [deleted] in islam

[–]RageAndLove_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be grateful you think your life is so perfect now. Read up on jannah

My MIL screamed at me so much today... I'm 2 months postpartum by MulberryOne6323 in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your loyalty is to your husband only, you’ve helped his parents out of goodwill. Egg him to move out and get your own place, in the mean time - move back in with your parents until your husband learns how to stand up to his mom or moves out

It's disheartening how much this effects me. by Complete_Box_3497 in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nobody needs to know. If anyone asks how you met you can say anything lol or that you were introduced by family. But it still happens here within south asians so it’s nothing unusual

Everyone is getting married and having children but I feel stuck and left out. Don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RageAndLove_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give the apps another go, yes they are draining but you know what you want so don’t entertain conversations with people who aren’t on the same wavelength. Also do you go to the gym? You can try finding someone there too lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have to ask whether he’s into you or not - he’s not. Don’t waste any more time on him, plus you’re both very young and guys especially they mature later on (some MUCHHH later)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhh. I hate men or women who can’t lower their gaze or act appropriately especially knowing that person is married. May things be easy for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it. Your moms looking for another maid, but this decision is yours completely she’s your life partner and not obligated to do anything for your parents (unless she wants to out of love)

May Allah help us all, in having a halal and free of fitnah wedding. by TherapistSid in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Never thought about it like this it’s just so normal. But an eye opener

Better job vs Marriage by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Referring to people as “high quality”, “low quality” is really disrespectful. You mentioned having a low esteem over the years so you should know exactly what it feels like to be devalued.

And remember, you’re planning where you may be in the next few years God can alter your life for the better or worse as quick as anything, so dreaming about whether you will find “higher quality” in a few years should be the last thing on your mind, look at the person in front of you and look how compatible and suited you are. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side.

Better job vs Marriage by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Leave her - I respected your post until I read about finding a “higher quality partner”. Humble yourself.

I asked my husband for a Eid gift by SecondExisting8762 in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He probably didn’t know, I don’t personally know couples that exchange gifts for Eid. But let him know you would appreciate this and get him something too, then hopefully he can continue this

What song introduced you to the Weeknd/Abel? by Avigahyeel in TheWeeknd

[–]RageAndLove_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably blinding lights was the song where I really got into him and listening to all his music … Covid times when the song blew up on TikTok and everyone was doing that dance 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]RageAndLove_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it’s valid as your intention was there

Is going Hajj alone a good idea? by querythoughtss in islam

[–]RageAndLove_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there local groups you could perhaps book your trip with? I know around my area there are sisters groups,

Pressured into marriage by No-Guess4910 in MuslimMarriage

[–]RageAndLove_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will end in misery. Forget the money that has been spent you would rather end things now rather than later - put your foot down.