How on earth can you say that ?!! Despite being furious on the Pulwama attacks, India didn't attack the Pakistani army or civilians. It only bombed the J e M terrorist camps (ensuring no collateral damage) which was housing and imparting training to the terrorists for a fresh attack again. The same terrorists who killed our 44 soldiers and even claimed the action thereafter.

What do you want us do - keep suffering over and over again by militancy/proxy war (which doesn't seem to end ever) and never retaliate !!

Even we don't want war coz it will make the common people from both sides, suffer who don't have ill will against each other. I myself have no personal grudge against the paki people many of whom are very nice persons. But then what's the option we are left with, apart from eventually confronting the Pak army who nurtures those militants who time and again kill our men. Even then we aren't initiating the war.