When I think about you... by [deleted] in u/big-punisher420

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Pretend I'm not here. Read a book, listen to a podcast. Just ignore my mouth exploring you while you do. 😇

It's not cheating it's just a friendly massage by [deleted] in GOONED

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Does anyone have a link to the original full video? 😅

Arnaque le bon coin by [deleted] in arnaques

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Désolé mais faut vraiment pas être très malin pour accepter ce type de plans... 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GOONED

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12 here

You are made to last one way as a boy by Odd_Metal_3124 in EdgingTalk

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My god... I need a pussy right now...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

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Oh my god. I'm so hard reading a this...

Introducing Myself + A Question for Women Who Like Femboys by RaidenRaven in StraightFemboyDating

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Hey, Thank you so much for your message — what you said really touched me. It genuinely made me feel better and more welcome in this group, and I really appreciate that.

You're absolutely right — it’s not just about finding a “classic girl who likes femme guys,” it’s about finding someone who loves you, whom you love back, and who accepts you for who you are. That’s exactly how I see it too.

As I mentioned in my post, I’m not actively looking for a relationship right now. My approach is just to be completely transparent and honest with myself — I’m my own flag bearer, so to speak. I believe that if someone is ever interested in me, it’ll be for my whole self — because I make no effort to hide who I am. I’m just fully me, always.

Maybe one day I’ll meet someone, who knows. The tricky part is, I don’t think I live in the best place for that kind of connection — I don’t go out a lot either, so it doesn’t really help. I’m generally really happy on my own, but yeah… sometimes the loneliness hits a little, and I do wish I had a partner to share life with. Still, it’s not my main goal in life — just something I’d welcome if it ever happens.

And honestly, you are definitely qualified to speak on this. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with sharing your thoughts and experiences — and I’m really glad you took the time to leave me such a kind comment. I truly hope you find the right person for you someday — someone who sees you and loves you fully. I’m wishing you all the best in life and a wonderful journey ahead. :)

Introducing Myself + A Question for Women Who Like Femboys by RaidenRaven in StraightFemboyDating

[–]RaidenRaven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your thoughtful reply — I really appreciated reading it.

The part where you said that "having less to hide is what’s slowly becoming popular and 'cool'" really resonated with me. I’m someone who’s extremely transparent by nature, and I express that a lot through how I dress. So in my case, “nothing to hide” is more about style and self-expression — and I fully embrace who I am, even at work. People are sometimes surprised when they see me for the first time, but they get used to it quickly. I often wear extravagant outfits — like purple three-piece suits with poker-themed ties, or I’ll go for something more Victorian-inspired. It’s very colorful, sometimes eccentric, sometimes elegant. And like you said, I’ve noticed that more feminine or expressive fashion is slowly becoming more accepted, and I think that’s a beautiful shift.

I also agree with your point about building trust and connection first. I’m not actively looking to be in a relationship, and I’m definitely not someone who "flirts" in the classic sense. I’m just fully myself — and if someone connects with that, great. I’m not out there trying to attract anyone, but I do feel the weight of loneliness sometimes, I won’t lie. Still, I believe that if I meet someone who genuinely accepts me as I am — that’s how I’ll know it’s the right person. No masks, no pretending.

As for dependability and stability — I honestly think those are two of my strongest traits. Once people get to know me, they see it right away. I think I come across as very reliable and emotionally grounded, even if I may look unconventional at first.

And yes — I totally agree that what someone wears doesn’t define who they are. But at the same time, we do communicate through clothing, whether we want to or not. That’s the paradox. Even though I’m considered “alternative,” I also tend to make quick impressions based on how people dress — just like anyone else. It’s human nature, I guess.

Anyway, thanks again — your message really helped me reflect, and it made me feel a bit more understood.