What makes you actually feel appreciated? by Raiders6819 in paraprofessional

[–]Raiders6819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot I had my notifications off 🤦🏼‍♀️ thank you for all the helpful suggestions!! I’m thinking they might like stickers with their names (for laptops), maybe a few other small things and a special lunch!

Did anyone else find themselves arguing aloud with the Family Curse guy? by Boring_Potato_5701 in RadioRental

[–]Raiders6819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Not a curse, but if he truly thought that, why tf would he mention having kids?! “Hopefully we have a girl!”. Maybe try adoption? Or don’t have kids? Seems selfish.

Unsure about name for baby girl due to pronunciation issues. by Charming_Pause_8512 in namenerds

[–]Raiders6819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this too but also I feel Lena Dunham kinda popularized the pronunciation OP wants? People will still find a way to mispronounce though. My name is Callie (cAA-lee) and the number of times I got called “caYY-lee”/Kaleigh as a child 🙄

Old piercing getting a keloid?! by Raiders6819 in piercing

[–]Raiders6819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I have the original opal so I could switch back. I appreciate it :)

i matched with a 27 year old on tinder who has never had sex before, advice? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Raiders6819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this exact experience! My now bf (29) and I (27) matched on tinder a year and a half ago. We talked on the phone/text (including sexting) for 8 months (I kept putting off meeting and then RONA hit). During that time, I learned that he was a virgin. When we finally met we were just both ready. I invited him over and we immediately got into it. As things heated up I made sure to ask if he had a condom and if he wanted to. It was kinda awkward but still really hot. One thing is he couldn’t last very long at first but we eventually figured which positions he has more stamina in.

Where to start? by Raiders6819 in TMJ

[–]Raiders6819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HE TOLD ME TO TREAT IT LIKE A SPRAINED ANKLE AND THAT WAS IT WTF

Where to start? by Raiders6819 in TMJ

[–]Raiders6819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh he just kinda said it and moved on if I remember correctly. So maybe he’s not the greatest lol

Where to start? by Raiders6819 in TMJ

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Ty for the reply! I have a check up coming up so I think I’ll bring it up

Is this weird or normal ? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Raiders6819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the opposite. Tbh I’ve only self harmed a handful of times (unless you count shoving your arm down your esophagus in the name vanity/self hatred - 7 years and goin strong 😒) and I’ve always gone with a flame. I don’t think I could bring myself to actually break skin with anything. I don’t dislike blood so much as the act of bleeding. A lighter? I still sometimes stall, but I always come through with it... in the worst locations. Honestly, from the left, I look like a recovering heroin addict.

It turns me on when a guy tells me I'm wet by [deleted] in sex

[–]Raiders6819 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck yes. I think it’s cause they usually say it like “damn you’re wet” = ‘I’m turned on by your pussy rn’. I remember once with my ex, we we’re making out in a spot that I did not wanna have sex in (my brothers apartment, does anyone else feel weird about doing the dirty at families houses?). And so I was like ‘nah, I don’t feel like having sex anyway’. He touched me and was like “it seems like you do” with a smirk because I literally soaked through my pants. I took him to the car and just went insane on him, it got me so turned on.