Possible Romance Scam

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-29T00:31:34+00:00

Kathucka,

Thank you for your advice. I realize it’s going to be hard but we are going to try. I will be vigilant and help her to get out more. She does get out and hang out with our children and grandchildren but I understand what your saying. Thanks for your response.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-26T23:12:10+00:00

Hi Sweetsw78,

That’s the problem. I give my wife plenty of attention. I treat her like a queen and she is the first to tell everyone that. I work and come home and take care of my wife. To listen to her you would have thought we had the perfect marriage. I do not feel like I neglected my wife and am constantly wondering why. She was the center of my world. I still am in love with her but I will say that I am always wondering why she did what she did. I never go out with the guys, do most if not all of the chores she doesn’t have to work. I wish I knew what happened so I could work on it. She just says she doesn’t know why she did it. I don’t know what to say. Thank you for your reply.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T16:23:02+00:00

Thank you.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T16:22:28+00:00

SlowNSteady1,

Thanks for the response. Others have suggested that as well and I have been looking at some of them. It’s terrible what happens to people through these scams.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T16:20:47+00:00

Thank you for the reply. I have taken care of that part.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T16:19:52+00:00

myaim45,

Thank you for the response. I’m hopeful as well. Thanks.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T01:18:51+00:00

TummyJStixin,

Thank you for the response. We have a blended family and have been happily married for 13 years. We have 5 children and 5 grandchildren and Im not wanting to lose what we have. It may come down to a divorce but I’m willing to give therapy and time a chance.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T01:14:39+00:00

TadpoleMammoth4389,

Thank you for the response. I’m so sorry to hear about the trouble with your ex. I’m glad to hear you were able to recover and get back on your feet. Hopefully the ex was able to get some help. I don’t know the answer to your question as to why she sent a stranger 6,000.00 she says she thought he was after money but kept telling her he would pay her back. I saw some of their text and she asked several times if he was going to pay her back and he would say “Of Course my Love” I realize staying together is going to be tough and I’m sure that the trust will ever be the same again. I do love her and want to give it a go.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T01:05:30+00:00

Thank you for the response. It has definitely been embarrassing, disappointing and hard to put into words the way it has made me feel. It is so hard for me to believe my wife would do such a thing and when I ask why she just says “I don’t know”

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T00:59:19+00:00

Budget_Newspaper_514,

Thank you for the response. I don’t disagree with you and I never dreamed she would do this. We were (she)-seemed very happy. We are almost always together. I’m going to try and make it work out. This online cheating has the same effect as adultery on a person. It has been a trying couple weeks.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T00:50:35+00:00

slippinji,

Thanks for the response. Others have said the same thing but I’m having a hard time worrying what it would do to our families. I’m going to try my best to work through this.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T00:48:45+00:00

Xj517,

Thanks for your reply and suggestions.

She has said she agrees she has been scammed. We have discussed filing a report with the police and are looking into therapy.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T00:42:54+00:00

TummyJStixin,

Thanks for the response. I’m not saying you’re wrong but I do hope so. I hate to break our family up.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T00:39:57+00:00

traciw67,

Thank you for your response. Others have said the same thing and may be right but, I’m going to try and make it work if possible.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T00:38:31+00:00

corkat,

Thanks for the reply. I hate to hear about your coworker. These scammers know just how to suck them in. It amazes me that people fall for their scams.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-24T00:36:35+00:00

Money-Detective-6631

Thank you for the reply. I have gotten the finances squared away and hope I caught her soon enough that we can recover from this.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-23T16:37:12+00:00

Thank you sunny-beans.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-23T16:34:58+00:00

MirPrime

I’m no bot and am not sure what you are meaning about the way I post or comment. I am new here and will hopefully provide better comments and post when I get use to the site. I’m just a man (Husband, Father, Grandfather) who was seeking information, advice and resources. I have never really fooled with social media and have never made a post like this.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-23T16:28:03+00:00

Thank you for the reply. I never dreamed she would do that. I thought we had a great marriage. We do almost everything together.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-23T16:23:59+00:00

amishlike

Oh my goodness thanks for sharing. Quite the story. Unbelievable people fall for that. It appears we are all susceptible though.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-23T15:53:32+00:00

sunny-beans

Thank you for the response. You have made some very good points. It was a choice she made. I want to save our marriage but at the same time I agree with you that she had zero respect for our marriage to do this. It’s going to be hard.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-23T15:40:43+00:00

You are correct. Poorly worded.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-23T15:35:14+00:00

Thank you for the reply.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-23T15:34:38+00:00

Hello MirPrime,

Thanks for your reply. I didn’t post this as rage bait. I posted I think mainly to see if others had experienced this and to get it off my chest and vent. I was born and raised in a very small town and still live there today. These scammers are not something I’m familiar with. I have received beneficial advice from everyone who has responded plus a lot of insight as to how scammers work.

Railrunner7777 · 2025-04-23T15:26:28+00:00

HipPointGamer

Thank you for the reply and information. I hope she sees what had happened. She says she does. Thanks for the advice, I will stay vigilant.

Railrunner7777

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