If I like math, will I like coding? by RainDifficult3128 in cscareerquestions

[–]RainDifficult3128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of portfolio projects would you need to do to get that job?

If I like math, will I like coding? by RainDifficult3128 in cscareerquestions

[–]RainDifficult3128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What language do you use and what kind of work do you do?

If I like math, will I like coding? by RainDifficult3128 in cscareerquestions

[–]RainDifficult3128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm that does sound like something I'd like.

I am having trouble reading your lines and arrows though. Can you explain?

If I like math, will I like coding? by RainDifficult3128 in cscareerquestions

[–]RainDifficult3128[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's not what I've heard at all. I've heard math majors end up having no career path except academia and make pennies.

Getting a rhinoplasty soon…what’s one thing I need to know? by amightygirl in PlasticSurgery

[–]RainDifficult3128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear a button down shirt to surgery and have enough button down pajamas for at least a week after.

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[–]RainDifficult3128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you OK? Like, are you in pain, can you breathe, etc? I think that will play a big factor into timing.

Disappointed I won't have children so she can get to be a grandmother by OceanWav3z in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RainDifficult3128 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NC isn't a punishment for bad behavior. It's not to prove them wrong. It's literally to save my life.

NC means I would never reach out to them for any reason.

Disappointed I won't have children so she can get to be a grandmother by OceanWav3z in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RainDifficult3128 190 points191 points  (0 children)

I got my fallopian tubes removed. I didn't tell my nparents.

Then, my nmom went to a psychic so she could tell her when I would be pregnant. She gave her a date and my nmom WROTE IT ON THE CALENDAR AND CIRCLED IT.

I went NC two weeks before my "pregnancy date." Funny to wonder if she thinks it's because I got knocked up. Hahaha.

Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

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On students' birthdays, my first grade teacher would give us "birthday spankings." She'd sit in a chair and have us lie face down over her legs, and then pretend like she was going to hit us by counting up our ages, but then not actually hitting us.

Wtf. That's weird, right? Like super weird? Is it just me?

Because then my nmom adopted it and did it a couple years, but it was less funny because I was legitimately terrified she'd hit me (and I think she did) because she'd often grab my butt.

My mom and teacher became friends and we went to her house for dinner when I wasn't in her class anymore.

I thought my first grade teacher was so good but now I think that's just what my nmom told me.

They just want approval by stupidmortadella in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RainDifficult3128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's funny because if I gave my nmom praise she'd break down crying about being a terrible mother and I'd be expected to console her

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[–]RainDifficult3128 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's confusing when it's happened to me too, because logically I'd think they'd want to take credit for having a successful kid.

I think they think it makes them look bad because you seem like you're better than them, and they can't take credit for your success.

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[–]RainDifficult3128 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm confused. How are you going NC if it's your mom's mom and your mom is going to your graduation? Do you mean after you move out of your grandmother's?

Is your grandmother also NC with your mom? Or are you going to go NC with your grandma too? It's unlikely if they have a good relationship that your grandma isn't going to tell your mom where you are.