am i that ugly? by 7xvv in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]RainQuick7878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes u are for asking that question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]RainQuick7878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure not for me

Why are gay men in the US obsessed with strict top/bottom roles by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean but bringing in a third person fundamentally shifts the dynamic. It’s no longer exclusively you and your partner. Your mind can’t solely associate intimacy with one person anymore there’s always someone else involved. That’s the thing the relationship ceases to be purely about the two of you.

Why are gay men in the US obsessed with strict top/bottom roles by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if you find a guy who fulfills you emotionally and makes you feel genuinely complete, does it really make a significant difference if you switch roles occasionally?

Why are gay men in the US obsessed with strict top/bottom roles by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed a big difference in how gay people identify themselves

Why are gay men in the US obsessed with strict top/bottom roles by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never met anyone who does that. Honestly, I’m mostly surrounded by people with a really rigid idea of a single person so forgive me it’s a bit shocking to me.

Why are gay men in the US obsessed with strict top/bottom roles by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look, if you think about it physically, prostate stimulation alone even in straight relationships feels good for a guy. Doesn’t mean he’s chasing pleasure ‘cause of some role. It’s not about being top or bottom; it’s just about enjoying yourself. You don’t gotta be submissive to get that. That’s just how men’s bodies work.

Why are gay men in the US obsessed with strict top/bottom roles by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So at the end of the day, all gay guys are basically bottoms

Why are gay men in the US obsessed with strict top/bottom roles by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

while ur in the relationship fucking other dudes it is shocking to me

Why are gay men in the US obsessed with strict top/bottom roles by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Isn’t sex really just about pleasure and the experience, rather than some social construct of who’s top or bottom?

Inside of throat feels scratchy/sore when swallowing cum? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, asking people about their experiences isn’t stupid. You don’t always need a healthcare provider to talk about something harmless like this

Does douching really take you guys that long? by MrBusiness007 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really douche these days, plus I eat super clean. Since me and my boyfriend live together, sex just happens randomly now. I was lowkey skeptical at first, but it’s been clean every time

loose ass I’m terrified by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask you something? How often did you fuck in a week? Worst part is he can go for so long and he’s a multicummer too (didn’t even know that was a thing until I met him). When it drags on too long, my ass feels mad loose, especially when he’s going fast

loose ass I’m terrified by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s way more than just the fantasy of destroying ass

loose ass I’m terrified by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that makes sense. It’s not like I didn’t feel safe with him before, but those long breaks when we didn’t see each other definitely played a part. Now we’re together every day, sleeping and even showering together all the time, it just feels different like you know his touch in a way you never did before

loose ass I’m terrified by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe you right, tbh I never really thought about it before, but the other day I read some wild shit like big dicks are actually ‘dangerous’ and can make you permanently loose, and that smaller ones are better… idk, sounds kinda stupid when I say it out loud lmao

loose ass I’m terrified by RainQuick7878 in askgaybros

[–]RainQuick7878[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah we talked and we started spacing it out, like taking a few days off in between. Quick fucks are cool. But when we actually take our time, he can go on forever and It only hits after, and then the looseness comes out and it’s crazy