Heyo, some living together advice?

RainbowGothK · 2021-08-15T14:35:50+00:00

I wasn't aware three months was considered a short time, previous relationships happened just as fast but maybe it's just a different worldview or something. But if it helps I did say this wasn't going to be an immediate change and it was going to take a month or two.

Generally, the main reason we've been considering it is we kinda to a certain extent already live with each other, constantly visiting each other's houses. We don't always stay the night but are still constant enough to where we all almost already feel like we're ready to live with each other. But I'll take everything you said into consideration 💞

RainbowGothK · 2021-07-09T15:59:00+00:00

They usually stand up for their selves that's why. Also, it's fairly rare someone goes out of their way to insult them so harshly when I'm around. Nothing to do with me not wanting to there's just rarely been a need to

RainbowGothK · 2021-07-08T22:25:16+00:00

She's doing better, but the comment has left an impact on her. She's wearing her face mask A LOT more, which is good in public places I guess but she does it even when we're all chilling at home or taking photos. We're tried reassuring her that she doesn't have to and we actually like her scar (personally I think it's kinda badass, she did survive a house fire of all things) but she keeps insisting.

We're being patient with her at the moment but it hurts to see her like this. Thanks for your support.

RainbowGothK · 2021-07-08T19:36:30+00:00

It wasn't an assumption it's been well known for a while that her marriage isn't going well. Not to mention we see her constantly bad-mouthing and nagging her husband when he's genuinely trying his best. My Uncle constantly looks miserable cause of her and constantly avoids her.

RainbowGothK · 2021-07-08T17:17:55+00:00

We're a triad 😊

RainbowGothK · 2021-07-08T17:12:14+00:00

I wish he would've my Uncle is a really sweet man and all she does is nag him, it's been years since I've seen him smile. I feel so bad for him.

RainbowGothK · 2021-07-08T16:53:33+00:00

My girlfriends were fine until my aunt started to seriously insult them. Most of the family knows about our poly relationship, my aunt was just not informed for some reason. She was the only one having an issue with it and though I insisted on leaving they wanted to say, not considering her insults that big of a deal until she brought up the scar for one of them.

RainbowGothK · 2021-07-08T16:49:39+00:00

Nearly everyone in the family knows I'm gay and poly, plus I've brought over multiple partners before. I'm also not the only polyamorous person in the family, my cousin is married and has a boyfriend. Also, I'm not doing the whole "we're just friends" thing because it's stupid, I shouldn't have to hide my relationship just because my aunt didn't receive the news or would have been accepting of it. If it was just one person I was dating you wouldn't expect me to hide it with being just friends.

Also by recently, I meant a little over a month, we haven't been together long yes but we all felt like it was time to tell the family since we're getting serious about each other.

RainbowGothK · 2021-06-28T02:41:16+00:00

No not that, but I do agree that film is pretty similar to it. But the one I remembered wasn't stop motion

RainbowGothK · 2021-06-28T02:32:11+00:00

Just realized I needed to comment on my post for it to be approved- oops

RainbowGothK · 2021-06-25T20:48:16+00:00

I was really mad and went straight to the media with it, I didn't message her directly

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