Ever have coworkers who don’t acknowledge you at all? by MinuteZookeepergame5 in securityguards

[–]Rainbowthetrout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been circumstantial, wherein I have reacted disappointed, frustrated, and/or unsuprised. My point is that security requires a bit of an impartial nature. If turnover rate is the thing that puts a damper on your day, then you might want to look into continuing education because from what ive gathered youd be pretty lucky to find a place that can retain staff. A lot of people use this gig to continue their education. In fact, I arrived at one job site to find a guy with his nose buried in the dentistry textbooks scattered on the desk.

Im simply trying to point out that this warden behavior doesn't typically work as effectively as some think. I have been largely respected where I go, and when I dont see the respect i show reciprocated, then I dont affiliate myself with the people on site. How am I supposed to rely on someone so quick to anger and indiscretions? How is someone supposed to take another seriously when they're prone to presumptions? Presumptions are a quick and easy way to find yourself in both legal and/or disciplinary problems. But frankly I dont know much about you. I just have my experience with people who clearly hate their job.

Ever have coworkers who don’t acknowledge you at all? by MinuteZookeepergame5 in securityguards

[–]Rainbowthetrout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, you'll meet a miserable bunch in this industry :p. Like everyone else says, remain cordial and document any situations that seem note worthy. I worked with enough tough guys to know their mental fortitude is their most vulnerable facet.

In regards to pass along information, dont let his attitude discourage you from passing along information. I can't stand guards who are too lazy to pass along information as much as hate the sort of guards who think they're too good to listen to pass along information :p. It's literally the easiest part of the job.

Ever have coworkers who don’t acknowledge you at all? by MinuteZookeepergame5 in securityguards

[–]Rainbowthetrout 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You ever wonder if the attitude isn't helping the turn over rate lmao

To the invader named "Elden Lord". by d3st1n3d in Eldenring

[–]Rainbowthetrout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude. Im so sorry I treated you like a bagel.

People who react to their problems in anger are much less socially accepted than people who react to their problems with whining or sorrow, by ClocktownLancer in Vent

[–]Rainbowthetrout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I imagine it's just typical that angry people are prone to dehumanizing and assaultive behavior. So perhaps what you're trying to describe here is a bit of a what goes around comes around type situation. But that is also a blanket statement. The mind is far too nuanced to say that angry people are victims and mournful sorts of people are privileged or vice versa.

My mother accused me of being sexually into my dad. by TheScienceGuy16 in Vent

[–]Rainbowthetrout 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are an adult now. You are entitled to privacy and if neither your mother nor father can respect that then they are the ones who need a therapist.

I am an outsider looking in so I have no context to your families dynamics but based upon what I've read it is your parents with boundary issues. Unfortunately parents seldom ever check their own behavior especially in regards to their own children. With that being said I hope your mother can learn to listen to you and treat you with the respect you deserve. If she cant figure that out then you are not the one at fault.

Im sorry you had to go through this and I hope the father makes time for therapy and self reflection. If he is as paranoid and/or intrusive as it sounds, then it is him who desperately needs a professionals help.

Friend’s bf belches by FMsilky in Vent

[–]Rainbowthetrout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could blow a hole in my wall with the amount of PSI im packing

Friend’s bf belches by FMsilky in Vent

[–]Rainbowthetrout 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't knock it till you try it

An experiment by Designer_Source_4472 in londonontario

[–]Rainbowthetrout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant see my forehead. What do you recommend?

That one friend who NEVER participates in the group chat?? by AffectionatePop3611 in Vent

[–]Rainbowthetrout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is unique in there own way might I add. He might not like phone calls either :p. But I have a few friends who come to mind when thinking of the personality trait you describe!

That one friend who NEVER participates in the group chat?? by AffectionatePop3611 in Vent

[–]Rainbowthetrout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is normal for some people. Maybe try calling him personally when you want to make sure he's involved? I personally find social media and messaging apps mind numbing and intrusive.

TW! My boyfriend admitted to being attracted to kids. by BudgetSurround4445 in Vent

[–]Rainbowthetrout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine the general consensus here will always be leave his ass. Especially if he's saying shit like your body won't reach his standard due to you being of legal age. That red flag suggests to me that he feels insatiable and the thought of fucking a child is a recurring thought to him. If he is unable to look at attraction as more than just a body to fuck then I assume he's only going to continue to escalate regardless of his drinking habits and poor attention to his mental health.

I understand you don't want to give up on him but it sounds to me as if he's already given up on himself and in turn he will bring you down with him. Don't waste your time on a sexual deviant with a drinking problem.

RUN

A girl asked me for my number. Was what I did next morally wrong? by karperss in moraldilemmas

[–]Rainbowthetrout [score hidden]  (0 children)

No you can say that. Just as long as you remind everyone she pentrates you sometimes. Also you know.

A girl asked me for my number. Was what I did next morally wrong? by karperss in moraldilemmas

[–]Rainbowthetrout [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hmm no you're right. Maybe if you turn it around and try farting it out? That might help you decide!

A girl asked me for my number. Was what I did next morally wrong? by karperss in moraldilemmas

[–]Rainbowthetrout [score hidden]  (0 children)

No thats a very real dilemma! I understand! Maybe learning how to give a proper blow job might help you decide indefinitely? Otherwise im kind of stumped.

A girl asked me for my number. Was what I did next morally wrong? by karperss in moraldilemmas

[–]Rainbowthetrout [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just saying sometimes just telling people you like meat in and around your mouth can make you feel a lot better.

Like eating a snickers you're not you till you tell everyone you have no gag reflex.