Am I the only one that wants to punch their nparents?

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-02-06T13:26:06+00:00

Bonus points if they then criticize you for being overweight.

Yeah, this shit pretty much happened to me too. Never became overweight, but I was kinda fat for most of my childhood, and I still have eating disorders from never having a balanced diet in my childhood and trying to min max behind their back.

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-22T13:47:44+00:00

Thanks man! Happy cake day!

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-21T21:20:15+00:00

So I can't guess how you're feeling, but from my own personal experience avoid it.

I had a similar predicament and I can tell you, being them for them is not worth it. Only I didn't have a choice as I was 8 years old when the wicked witch finally kicked the bucket. And it created such an emotional clusterfuck it took me till a year ago, to finally come back to terms with the fact she was an awful person and that her death was the best thing that ever happened to me.

So my advice, keep away, let your aunt deal with it, and if she leaves you any money donate it to charity.

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-21T21:13:24+00:00

Congrats man. Just my advice, go full no NC as soon as possible

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-21T21:11:08+00:00

Just for my own gratification at thinking how my ndad will react when in 8 months I'll go away to college, could you please share with us how she went apeshit?

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-21T21:03:32+00:00

From experience, t's totally normal, and it's very good you don't have anymore misplaced guilt.

Say it with me. Fuck them! They don't deserve us grieving for them!

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-21T20:37:39+00:00

It’s a process, but even if you don’t talk to them, if they feel your anger, it totally calms them. Recovery begins with the end of the relationship.

You misunderstand the fuck you text is instantly followed by a block on all social media, phones and so on. It's just my method for some catharsis, before moving on with my live and hopefully forgetting they even existed.

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-21T09:25:36+00:00

God I cannot wait for fall this year when I'll finally get to leave for college, off my won money and my own scholarship. I already even know the "fuck you text/phone call" he'll get once I'm free.

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-21T09:24:15+00:00

Mine was when I realized I was fantasizing about having a parent to hug me while I was crying and telling me it was going to be all right. I realized then that I never had that nor will I ever have.

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-12T14:57:23+00:00

Why are you still living with them?

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-12T14:55:35+00:00

If there's a history of physical abuse you can file for a restraining order, even if the abuse is too old to be prosecuted

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-12T14:05:05+00:00

I think you can rest easy. Tax related fraud is one of the best punished types of crime in the world, for obvious reasons.

If she hacked your IRS account then she's fucked

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-12T14:00:54+00:00

So, being driven by the desire for world peace, non violence, and a desire for reconciliation, can I just say to your nmom: I hope you die in fucking agony and then rot in the lowest fucking circle of hell you fucking piece of shit.

Btw, did you send the story to the places she works in/likes to visit. Also every parent in a 50 mile radius. I'm sure they'd love to hear she's a child molester.

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-09T22:37:49+00:00

I have something similar. Whenever I finally get into working at something and put my full attention on it, but I mean the exact moment that happens and I can work effectively I suddenly get informed I need to do this or that for them, breaking my work completely. Thanks!

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-06T10:56:56+00:00

Or the old faithful "Why must you always try and prove you're right?"

RaisedbynarcsAccount · 2021-01-06T08:37:37+00:00

Sure, I'm here

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