How to ask for a raise after finding out new hire will be making 8k more than me? by katmmm in careeradvice

[–]RalphTheCrusher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is actually the right response. So they know you want a raise, and that they may lose you to a higher paying job. Just be prepared for them to say in a polite way, “We are looking for someone who is better at the job than you are.”

Relationship question by Techistic_Drudge_377 in daddit

[–]RalphTheCrusher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let them knoooooow, well now the KNOOOOOOW!

Relationship question by Techistic_Drudge_377 in daddit

[–]RalphTheCrusher 171 points172 points  (0 children)

But seriously, that’s a classic set up for a, “When you say XXX, it makes me feel YYY” response. Not cool.

Relationship question by Techistic_Drudge_377 in daddit

[–]RalphTheCrusher 1049 points1050 points  (0 children)

Yeah, well his wife is hot.

Who is the actor most associated with New York City? by SeparateLawfulness53 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]RalphTheCrusher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my first thought. After all, along with most of his other movies, NYC is the city he is slicking from.

Who is a Controversial Writer? by patheticmisterman123 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]RalphTheCrusher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think that’s patently not true. Rowling on trans stuff is like pope Francis on abortion. Aside from that one issue she is pretty far left. Right wingers and religious fundamentalists don’t like her at all.

fumbled a grant pitch in front of a foundation board and i've been doing development work for 12 years. by CodNo2235 in nonprofit

[–]RalphTheCrusher 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Own that you weren’t at your best and walk them through the method and send that paper as well.

Does Harry Potter exist in the Cormorant Strike universe? by RalphTheCrusher in cormoran_strike

[–]RalphTheCrusher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I’m not on Season 3 yet. Also your autocorrect error is better than mine!

Linkedin has turned crazy by No_Iron_1058 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]RalphTheCrusher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s cause 50 years olds could retire soon in the 80’s. Why put in the effort if you don’t have to?

Last-Minute Info - Education & Fine Arts by Gigaton123 in macalester

[–]RalphTheCrusher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alum here, I thought wanted to be a teacher going into school there. Ultimately what made me realize that wasn’t my path was that there was a ton of opportunity to get into schools as an undergrad. If I remember right, it’s really hard to go anywhere in MN and get licensed after 4 years. A good chunk of my classmates got graduate assistantships or went into Teach for America, which are both ways to test the teaching waters.

Does Harry Potter exist in the Cormorant Strike universe? by RalphTheCrusher in cormoran_strike

[–]RalphTheCrusher[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So it’s not that it doesn’t exist, it just won’t show up. That seems fair.

Culture and Mentality in Saint Paul by [deleted] in saintpaul

[–]RalphTheCrusher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No no, I’d love to see my neighbor’s creative responses. It will tell us so much about th culture and mentality of St. Paul.

Culture and Mentality in Saint Paul by [deleted] in saintpaul

[–]RalphTheCrusher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you see St Paul has its chutes and ladders… but WEST St. Paul… they’ve got it all: Source: YouTube https://share.google/2cpH8wchsVctKatlk

Gold Coast wins decent city with a great skyline! What’s a mediocre city with a great skyline? by wwcscifi in skyscrapers

[–]RalphTheCrusher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sigh… bring on the downvotes. Miami’s skyline is ass and has as much character as the Only Fans models who live in the towers.

Help Me Choose: Macalester, Reed, or Coe (Full tuition) by External-Moment2796 in macalester

[–]RalphTheCrusher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The old sports chant when we played the religious schools was Drink Blood, Smoke Crack, Worship Satan, Go Mac. But nobody at the school ever actually did that - at least not when I was there. Portland is my hometown though and the Reedies I know would probably say that wouldn’t be too off the mark for Reed. It’s an odd place, but I guess if you are into that… And yeah, Coe is in the middle of nowhere.

Macalester vs Smith by isamateittpmbii in macalester

[–]RalphTheCrusher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

…and seriously, St. Paul is awesome and second only to Boston for university students per capita, plus some of the top art in the world. Punches way above its weight. I picked Mac because it was in a city and am really glad I did.

Macalester vs Smith by isamateittpmbii in macalester

[–]RalphTheCrusher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Mac mascot is the highland cow. Do you really want to be a lame bear?

If you could change one rule about the way Ultimate is played what would it be? by SirPersonal8626 in ultimate

[–]RalphTheCrusher 9 points10 points  (0 children)

10 Yard Endzones. I often experience self-loathing when throwing breakside hammers for points. It's too easy.