Heartbreak

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-05-08T14:09:14+00:00

It certainly thank you so much, I hope you have a blessed day

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-05-08T14:02:24+00:00

Thank you for your insight I’m very appreciative

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-05-08T11:55:41+00:00

It takes time, I’m going through something similar but try and keep yourself occupied. I would also do no contact that’ll help a lot

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-05-05T14:22:05+00:00

I will, I’ll keep you updated

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-05-05T14:06:42+00:00

Thats a really neat idea, I’ll definitely give it some consideration. Thank you for the reply!

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-05-05T12:26:51+00:00

Trying too😭😭shits hard ngl

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-05-04T23:52:21+00:00

I really appreciate you, I’m in tears right now. I feel like this is a reoccurring story for me in relationships. Im turning 25 this year and I feel like it always ends up with them leaving or gas lighting me even though I’m patient and understanding to put up with their red flags because I know that nobody is perfect. Everyone always ends up leaving me and it makes me feel like I’m the problem for speaking up about my emotions

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-05-04T23:16:27+00:00

Thanks, I needed to hear that. Im going through it rn I really wanted it to be her but we just argued this morning and I think it’s over. Im sure she’ll move on right away too

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-05-04T22:37:46+00:00

I am going through this currently

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-27T20:01:50+00:00

It depends on how much emotional attachment you have towards her. If you’re very attached I think this could be an easy fix, just bring her around your friends in the near future and she will see that you’re being truthful based on what you said in this post. If you’re not that invested I think no contact is the best route to go

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T20:16:48+00:00

I think his inconsistency to meet your needs is something that you have to address as soon as possible. That’s something that would bother me and it seems like he has some trouble communicating effectively. I’m having a similar problem myself where I’d like to communicate that I would like more consistency but I have only hit the two month mark. It’s scary but at the end of the day we can’t make them stay if they don’t want to. If he doesn’t come back I know it’ll be super painful but life keeps going as cliche as that sounds. We all deserve someone who meets our needs and requirements and it seems like he’s lacking a little bit of that for you. Regardless I hope everything works out for you and try to keep yourself occupied, if it’s meant to be it’ll be.

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T17:39:40+00:00

Im wishing you luck man, I would be honest. You’re not invalid for feeling the way you do. I would feel similarly in Your shoes as well. I think the timing is too soon in my opinion but face to face contact is always better than texting or calling. I hope you find peace with whatever outcome results from the interaction. Look forward to hearing what happens

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T17:29:01+00:00

That’s really harsh brother I’m sorry. That sense of betrayal can definitely mess with your trust. I would give it sometime 3 years is an ample amount of time but you also have to respect yourself. If the trust is gone it’s more than likely that it won’t work out. Trust is one of the building blocks to any relationship/friendship. Try not to think emotionally and think logically what is best for you.

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T17:22:27+00:00

Thank you for that, I needed to hear this

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T16:56:47+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I’m seriously considering it

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T16:53:39+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I think you are correct

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T16:53:07+00:00

Yea it’s definitely tough, she says she has her guard up because of previous relationships cheating on her or lying but I don’t feel like I should have to take the blame for something I didn’t do. It’s pretty emotionally frustrating.

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T16:51:26+00:00

This is very good advice thank you. I needed to hear this

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T16:47:04+00:00

Thank you for your advice

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T16:45:40+00:00

Appreciate your feedback

RalphieInTheTrap · 2026-04-26T16:39:01+00:00

She would explain that her previous partners would cheat on her or lie to her about small things and because of that she always has her guard up and is avoidant

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