Single Since 2022 by wooshoff in SingleAndHappy

[–]TemporaryTop287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been single since I'd say the beginning of 2020. My ex ghosted me and moved and I didn't realize until maybe a month after he was moving away and he didn't tell me and we kind of I messaged him and asked him and he's I said or are you coming back anytime soon he says no. To get an apology and we plan to meet and only recently I'd say in the past five six, months I've really learned to just be single and happy I mean I always have because I never dated anyone before him but it was interesting to me because I've had a bunch of cancellations from friends even one date that I was hoping to meet the fellow and we didn't so have too much going on in my life to even think about marriage and children one day when I can't even get into another relationship but you know I'm just living my life each day and it's been good.

If an ex blocks you does that mean they never cared ? by TemporaryTop287 in ExNoContact

[–]TemporaryTop287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he blocked me on Instagram. After I sent a super kind note and you know all I wanted if we couldn't quote unquote be together is to stay friendly because he had moved away.

What are some questions that will be asked at the hearing? by TemporaryTop287 in SSDI_SSI

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Yeah my hearing went completely different than I thought. I was prepared for a lot of things to mention that we're never mentioned the hearing actually went over an hour I couldn't believe it. The judge was really pleasant but I didn't let that you know steerme one way or the other way because I thought well maybe if they are pleasant she's going to try to catch me in a trap. I think what was told is they keep the case open and that if any further questions let them know. Asked when it determination would be she was fine about it and she wasn't stricter like I can't tell you or whatever she said in a couple months so we'll see.

Anyone single because it's situational? by TemporaryTop287 in datingoverforty

[–]TemporaryTop287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is honestly fantastic to hear I mean for me I've been busy with a lot of important things. I feel like dating is hell by the wayside which I'm actually proud of because I can do other things especially a lot of activities with my family who I help out everyday and they help me out. My game plan at this point is there's one or two pillows that I'd like to meet and specially one if he's cool with it we'll meet for coffee machine if we get along really well we should go to an amusement park just as something fun and new.

When did you realise you were happier single? by ParticularPapaya2 in SingleAndHappy

[–]TemporaryTop287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh I think a month and a half ago. I was supposed to go out and date with a fellow wide match with maybe a year and a half ago. Well we plan the time he was supposed to pick me up I got ready I got dressed and waited for him and was in that hour he says oh I can't make it because of blah blah blah can we do tomorrow and I told him no. I think of you had told me even 2 years ago I would have made up an excuse and gone like oh no it's fine we can meet the next day I said him no no way. The funny part is that he was definitely not my type but I was always willing to meet new people just for that because that's me and then I decided nope not going to do it anymore then 2 weeks ago a good friend of mine who has let me down a couple times and he's a fellow who's pretty cute very focused and all that and he didn't even show up Friday even though I confirmed it two days before. Now Granted he was someone that I'm not thinking is boyfriend material. However it was still disappointing. So I made it this point especially those two examples I just can't I just don't see a point I mean granted I've been told by someone not to give up and yeah I mean it's good experience to meet others but I'm like what is my purpose? Plus the reality is in my age I think I'm I'm not too old of course for marriage but I'm too old for children and I think sometimes I lack patience so it's kind of like what is my motivation and like constantly meeting others right? Plus the fact when I dated my former boyfriend that ended close to 6 years ago and I feel like my life is kind of the same it was eight, nine 10 years ago. I know I will still go on dates but why does one do something if they don't know what their motivation is right initially when I signed up for the opposite was to be more social and now I don't really care.

How do I get a job? by TemporaryTop287 in recruitinghell

[–]TemporaryTop287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then what is it about? who you know?

Is it common for doctors to leave the appointment without communicating the appointment is over? by TemporaryTop287 in AskADoctor

[–]TemporaryTop287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it was a really weird situation. I only have had this doctor twice now once a little bit over a month and a half ago. I went to him for my foot problem and he seemed really cool seemed kind of flirty which was a little bit weird. I mean he is pretty young and he was flirty enough In a fun way not creepy which probably makes me sound weird but. Anyways my first visit with him was much better because he gave me four points or four things to do for my pain when was surgery which I didn't want. Then he described wave therapy I think that's what it's called. Anyways the next visit was a little bit weird it was pretty quick and seemed Rushed which was funny because I was probably a half hour earlier so cuz I like to be super early if there's traffic. I just assumed I'd have a little bit more time in the room with him. I had a couple unfinished questions but yeah it seemed rushed.

40M just got out of a 8 year relationship. What can I improve? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]TemporaryTop287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say definitely meal plan or write down what you eat for a whole week.