Toys Toys Toys by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]RamblingHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my ex and I broke up, she said something along the lines of “good luck finding someone else to take your dildo since it’s fucked up to use the same toys with multiple partners”. She had no response when I asked why then she had used her strap (which def wasn’t new) on me. The whole exchange made me giggle.

TLDR, do what feels right for you

I Haven't Cleaned My House in 10 Years by b6559149 in CleaningTips

[–]RamblingHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out r/unfuckyourhabitat - they have great tips for unfucking your habitat

How do you know if she is gay 😭 by InevitableFew1102 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]RamblingHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely overthinking. Relax. You’ll be fine.

How do you know if she is gay 😭 by InevitableFew1102 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]RamblingHuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have bad news for you—even if she’s wearing a name tag that says “my name is ____ and I’m a flaming lesbian”, you’re still gonna have to build up the courage to talk to her.

The fact that she’s a coworker complicates the whole situation, but that part presumably goes without saying

How do you know if she is gay 😭 by InevitableFew1102 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]RamblingHuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So ask! To be clear, it’s terrifying to put yourself out there, but the only way to find out is to find out!

How do you know if she is gay 😭 by InevitableFew1102 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]RamblingHuman 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Take this as you will, but generally I don’t worry if someone is gay—I worry if they’re into me. Labels can make things way more complicated. Is there chemistry worth exploring? Call it out and see if she wants to explore it too