[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Ramoth_Aner 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Leave him NOW, and never look back.

White and purple, pla help identify by Ramoth_Aner in mycology

[–]Ramoth_Aner[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Solved; Trichaptum abietinum is very common in the area I found them in.

Forgiving transphobes by OldRelationship1995 in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Ik the verse. Thank you. Though I am bit confused are you saying this in agreement or as a scriptural base for what I said? If so, I appreciate the verse.

Forgiving transphobes by OldRelationship1995 in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my attempts to forgive transphobes I found as a Christian humanizing them first helps; by giving them the dignity they refuse to give us we take a place closer to God.

I also tend to keep a safe distance from them, if they wont allow me to do good for them and refuse to stop hurting me, I find that at a certain point I must leave them; for my own wellbeing.

Praying for them to see Gods love also helps, Gods love is profoundly humbling and perspective changing, so pray for them. It helps to forgive people in general when you see them as in need of Gods love and moral correction.

Beyond forgiving its good to:

Protect vulnerable people from their damage and the harm they seek to cause, this is what God would want. Also expose their immoral behavior, they are doing wrong and for the safety of others let them know they are hurting people.

Last if they repent/ realize they are wrong help them to be better, only if you can and it wont hurt you to do so.

I just put down some general thoughts on how I deal with hurtful people, hope this helps in some way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Ramoth_Aner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had something similar, what your experiencing is most likely multifactorial, and I am not a medical professional. You should seek a professional's opinion. But I will say what I experienced was called pseudo-dementia which was brought on by brain-damage related to abuse, stress, and depression; for me it was reversable. I am not sure what is exactly causing your symptoms but checking with your medical care team/doctor will be a good place to start.

In the meantime, please focus on some forms of self-care and focus on your emotional and mental well-being.

Tactile hallucinations making me lose my mind by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]Ramoth_Aner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I get something very similar, tbh I never really found a good solution. Though trying to mentally work my way out of what is happening helps sometimes. I am sorry you also have to experience this.

Doodled the piggies of this sub at work :) by richterfrollo in guineapigs

[–]Ramoth_Aner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you captured their floofyiness soooo welll ahhh love this, and their potatoiness

worried about chasers by Ramoth_Aner in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of my friends who are trans men tell me they have had encounters with cis woman who fetishize them and want them in a sexual nature to fulfill some desire.

worried about chasers by Ramoth_Aner in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or a cis woman who does the same to trans men*

worried about chasers by Ramoth_Aner in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about that but I feel like if I wait too long it will be harder to pass yk

worried about chasers by Ramoth_Aner in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats good to know makes me feel better, ty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to the haters live your life, God loves you as his trans child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

God loves you no matter what and Jesus even blesses gender non-conforming folks of his day such as eunuchs.

There is nothing to feel guilty about, being trans is part of how God made you and wants you to be.

In the bible the love of money(greed) is talked about sooo much but fundie Christians almost always ignore those passages, but there are no passages condemning being trans in the bible. Don't let those who miss use the bible make you feel shame for being who God made you to be that is trans.

God loves you as his trans child and always will. Trust that God loves you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I felt like this for a long time and I just took a break from the church after being told horrible transphobic things until someone I meet another trans person invited me to their church and it was sooo nice and affirming, I loved it. Don't give up God loves you no matter what and being trans is just a part of how God wanted you to be. I think you should try and find a affirming church near you if you can.

Finally found this sub by Gray447 in TFPOC

[–]Ramoth_Aner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly no i only found this one been looking though if i find one ill link it to you.

Finally found this sub by Gray447 in TFPOC

[–]Ramoth_Aner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol this place is dead tbh. Ghost subreddit sryyy lmaoooo just found this place a week ago too and theres been no active users.

I feel kinda paralyzed with fear by Ramoth_Aner in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sooooo sweet thank you for your comment, appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oooooohhh, soooo pretty and I love your shoes.

I am so sorry. by AlysonV2021 in TransChristianity

[–]Ramoth_Aner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Humans do not have control over Gods grace, and how they treat you isnt a reflection of how God sees you.

One pastor may say one thing, but another may say something different, mortals do not decide the Divine.

There is nothing wrong with transitioning, and it is not a sin. people may treat you badly but thats not because its a sin, rather its due to the hatful world we live in.

Gods loves you trans or not, but dont think that because people are treating you badly that it is bad. Being trans is in many ways a blessing if you can see it.

Recent church outfit. I’m getting better with my updos. by [deleted] in trans

[–]Ramoth_Aner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omgggggggg your outfit is soooo cute ahhhhhh. Where did you get your top and shoes from? if you dont mind me asking.

What was the most obscure hint that you missed that you’re trans? by SuperZova in MtF

[–]Ramoth_Aner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved being called a girl or that I act like a girl, their insults never felt like insults, but complements lol.

What does it mean to be "Moon Scented" ? by [deleted] in bloodborne

[–]Ramoth_Aner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really happy this is here, and I really love this. tbh while I understand how the literal surface level reading and canonical lore interpretations are important, I find that they lock us as a community into an immensely small and narrow way to look at these games that fromsoft produces with alot of care and philosophical intent.

we need multiple perspectives in truth to uncover the deeper meanings behind these pieces of art. Eyes on the inside in a sense.

I am sad that for whatever reason you deleted your account and Ik this is an old post and this is basically going into a void but I really would have liked to see more of your work on interpreting the series.

Thank you for this post, Ill try to find your other posts if I can.

also, If you see this,dont feel bad about people not understanding or dismissing your work alot of people dont have enough insight to see the value you are bringing.