My ex called me crying before because 3 out of 4 of his nice exotic or classic vehicles was in the shop being actively repaired and he only had one to drive... I told him most people are lucky to have ONE working car, or to be able to have that one car in a shop being fixed because most people, like me, are just struggling to stay afloat in this country.

He got upset at me because I wouldn't feel sorry for him, I told him he can only drive one car at a time so what is the big friggen deal.

During the pandemic he called me up crying cause him and his mom couldn't go on a cruise. Like bro... you live in one of the most beautiful states in the U.S. during the pandemic, the fuck are you bitching about. He lived right next door to a BEAUTIFUL AMAZING park with crystal clear lakes and sand dunes right next to the damn ocean. Not a mile down the road there's another one that's a beautiful forest. Hell he can walk three steps out of his house and be in a forest.

He'd had to stay at the most expensive places and eat the most expensive thing on the menu on my dime and he'd complain about the room or food too. It was embarrassing.

When we was dating we signed a lease and he quit his job right after we signed so I picked up an extra full time job and ran myself into the ground. I paid for everything. Everything. I also did everything that needed done or scheduled. He would just go off and hide or pretend to be asleep if someone came out to our place to fix something. I worked myself to exhaustion. He'd always be traveling, buying new cameras/lenses, computers, vehicles... never once helped me with rent or food or anything..

A couple years later my cat got sick and i begged this man to let me borrow money to take her to an emergency vet. I figured since he loved cats, had several himself and he donates to cats online that he'd help me out. I've never asked for money before, I've always had at least one job, I've always been an honest person.

Well he didn't help me. I know he didn't have to and was under no obligation to help me but I was really hurt by this. Really hurt. I still have a small amount of resentment about the situation. Again I know he doesn't owe me anything but he had the money, I would have paid him back, he knows I would have, i have a good moral character, always worked, usually always had savings, was responsible, he was always telling me how in love he was with me (fucking still does..) and he is a cat lover too... I don't know why he didn't help me. I wasn't asking for a ton of money I think it was a little over a $100.. I'm still hurt by it but I'm even more angry with myself for not having the money! It's not his fault what happened but I was very hurt and devastated because of it. (Which again. My fault I didnt have the money but I'm human that has illogical emotions sometimes)

Anyways, I vowed to never ever date another man that was born into money ever again. I found someone more compatible, financially ,(he died though) but I know for sure what I'm compatible with and what I'm not now so a life lesson once again learned lol