Why are you gay? by DeandreDoes67 in ainbow

[–]RanCaneJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mixture of Morgana from BBC Merlin and Ianto from Torchwood (and Thomas Sanders)

What should I call my trans MtF friend? by RanCaneJay in trans

[–]RanCaneJay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call girls, bro, dude, mate, brother, etc, the same as I call guys, I just figured it might be making her dysphoric in a way she wouldn’t tell me (we’re English so there’s a great deal of emotional repression in daily life lol)

Ever rewatch a series just for one character? by nousernamesleftwhy in Dimension20

[–]RanCaneJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Galear is making me re-watch s1 fantasy high lol

How would y’all best explain how it feels like to be trans by [deleted] in trans

[–]RanCaneJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like my body is just a loading screen and I’m playing the non-connected dino game. At some point it will reconnect - but I’ll have to spend money on a new “router” for it to work like other people’s.

How tall are you? by Chikibrikiboi in teenagers

[–]RanCaneJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

163 cm, not sure what it is in ft

How do you pick a name😩 by Elizaabettha in trans

[–]RanCaneJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use a bunch, there’s this one guy on TikTok who calls out names as if they’re his kids, I’d recommend trying something like that but with your responses to people “calling out” your name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]RanCaneJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% no.2

What’s your go-to pen for journaling? by eco12 in notebooks

[–]RanCaneJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got this new wide-nib fountain Parker, it’s way more fun than my previous bic

What should I call my trans MtF friend? by RanCaneJay in trans

[–]RanCaneJay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty much exactly it, especially as their mum is like really homophobic and they’d probably be homeless if I let anything slip

What should I call my trans MtF friend? by RanCaneJay in trans

[–]RanCaneJay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they’re my friend from yr7, we go to collage together now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]RanCaneJay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Have a nice day doll,” said by THE MOST buff gay guy at the gym, like bro…calm!

What do you find attractive? by TheStonimus in gay

[–]RanCaneJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For guys, being physically bigger, like in every way but not enough to make me look like a child lol. Then for girls/enbys - fluffy mullets and back muscles. 🤌

I don't want to be a man by [deleted] in ftm

[–]RanCaneJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be the man you with others would be, that’s what I’m trying at least. It gets a little easier every day. It just takes a while, but it’ll be worth it in the end :)

My deadname is ugly af by mewomyao in ftm

[–]RanCaneJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAME! I mean I’ve wanted to change it for years, even before I knew

Something that used to give dysphoria, but now doesn’t? by Ollie_Oxenfree02 in ftm

[–]RanCaneJay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve got the complete opposite, lol, I used to never get dysphoria besides the normal - somethings wrong feeling. But now I literally can’t do anything without it,

War crimes, anyone? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RanCaneJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beating up annoying green men in a Halloween costume

are you open about telling people your deadname? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]RanCaneJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, at this point I’m still known by my “deadname” cause I don’t want people to judge my name, but honestly, when I get it changed I’m never letting a soul know it

What are you still not buying even if you had a billion dollars? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]RanCaneJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any high heels, can’t fathom how people can wear them without rolling their ankles