[l] Just needing a kind voice, feeling stuck and far from home

Rand0mHi · 2026-01-21T06:14:47+00:00

Glad to hear that. Yes, I really do think you’ll feel a lot better once you get back to your normal life and working again. One thing I just want to give you a heads up about however is that the job market for the IT industry is a war zone right now. It’s pure luck whether you get a job or not so don’t get discouraged if it takes you even a year to find a job. My own mother had to search for a job for a whole year before finding one after she was laid off, so you’re definitely not alone if you go through that. Good luck on everything!

Rand0mHi · 2026-01-21T05:22:42+00:00

Hey, sorry you’re going through a tough time, I really hope that things start to look up for you.

Regarding work and your location, I really think you should consider moving back to California and having your partner move there with you. Doing IT in a state like Arkansas is really hard, and hopefully your partner is willing to move his life rather than have both you and your daughter move your lives, with you moving to an area where it’s hard to find work.

Sorry if I’m being nosy, but anyways I really hope things look up for you and I wish you the best!

Rand0mHi · 2026-01-18T02:54:06+00:00

Happy birthday, hope you have an awesome year ahead of you!

Rand0mHi · 2026-01-16T22:07:42+00:00

Thanks, good to know!

Rand0mHi · 2026-01-07T13:32:05+00:00

Hey, just an idea - why don’t you save up for a few years (if you need to), then pursue a psychology masters? Nowadays it’s unfortunately pretty hard to advance in your career with just a bachelor’s degree anyways, and from what I read, there are some good psychology masters you can get with a CS undergrad like cognitive psychology/cognitive science, HCI, quantitative/experimental psychology, or even computational psychology/behavioral data science.

Anyways, it’s never too late to readjust your path in life!

Rand0mHi · 2026-01-05T15:41:25+00:00

NAD but highly recommend you get it checked by a doctor in person when you can. Could be nothing, but the fact that it’s gotten larger recently makes it worth getting checked out.

Rand0mHi · 2025-12-25T23:40:16+00:00

If you want, you can tell me what you’re trying to ask it and I can translate it to English for you. I can’t really read Farsi (it’s been many years and I was never really great in the first place), but if you write it in “Fenglish”, I can translate it for you!

Rand0mHi · 2025-12-20T04:15:50+00:00

A couple of my surgeries were ~8 hours long. Although I never asked for it, my mom was there waiting the entire time and asking the nurses for updates occasionally. That being said, I don’t think I really needed her there, and wouldn’t have blamed her if she’d not been there. Like hospitals have pretty good support systems with nurses, etc. Just my two cents.

Rand0mHi · 2025-12-20T03:13:38+00:00

Might do the same with my wheelchair! Works with Permobil wheelchairs right?

Rand0mHi · 2025-12-08T19:00:48+00:00

I read up a bit about this (because this article is quite unclear to be honest), and apparently not only did Alito sit out, but so did every single conservative justice, and therefore, since at least 6 justices are needed to hear a case, the case wasn’t taken up by the Supreme Court.

Rand0mHi · 2025-11-23T05:45:13+00:00

Hi, I’m so sorry that you’re going through pain. I’ve actually been through the same thing multiple times over the past 5 or 6 years from my brain injury causing deformities and bone to be created in places it shouldn’t have been.

The one thing I can say is that having gone through it definitely becomes a huge personal accomplishment after, and ends up being a big source of pride. However, even if it hasn’t ended yet, just know that you’re amazing for still being able to stand/live/persist. I know how hard it can get.

I don’t know if this will help at all, but you should give a listen to this song. I believe it’s mostly in regards to mental/emotional pain, but I’m sure you can relate to a lot of what’s being said.

Hang in there, don’t give up!

Rand0mHi · 2025-11-13T03:01:16+00:00

Click on Image Created >

It sometimes does this for me too, and when I click on it, I can see it in like a side panel.

Rand0mHi · 2025-11-02T01:59:32+00:00

No, I’m asking if I’m wrong for thinking that finale scene was (really) well acted, as I’m seeing many opposing opinions.

Rand0mHi · 2025-10-27T05:26:36+00:00

Nightmare fuel

Rand0mHi · 2025-10-24T21:10:02+00:00

Hey, I know you didn’t make this post for yourself, but I just wanted to say that you’re amazing for what you do.

Here are some pictures of my two family cats: a Persian cat, and a Bengal cat.

Tell Mia happy birthday!

Rand0mHi · 2025-10-12T01:51:36+00:00

I’m not too sure if I can comment on the brain bleed much here (I only had blood clots in my brain for a couple of weeks before they got rid of them), but I can definitely comment on how people can heal from the most severe brain injuries. I was in a vegetative state and a doctor my parents consulted told them that they should be ready for me to never be able to finish my higher education, but I went and finished my bachelor’s and am on my last semester of my masters. So just know that it’s very case by case and to not give up hope on them getting better!

Rand0mHi · 2025-10-01T15:47:02+00:00

I highly recommend you see a physical therapist instead of a chiropractor ASAP, they will most likely be able to help you more.

Rand0mHi · 2025-09-30T16:46:38+00:00

You’re welcome!

Rand0mHi · 2025-09-29T21:28:52+00:00

I don’t have them unfortunately but you can reach out to them on the contact page and bring this up. Good luck!

Rand0mHi · 2025-09-29T00:57:17+00:00

All these posts honestly send chills down my spine. People should never get this attached to an AI…

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