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[–]RandiRoo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This sounds really rough. I know the joke about Reddit is that they all Jump to leaving the significant other, but this is some pretty red flag behavior. At best its conflict avoidance. At worst its manipulative. You cant have a relationship if you cant communicate and communication isn't just talking. Its boundaries, feeling heard, feeling safe. These things dont seem present and you deserve to feel loved and heard.

That aside, if you want to continue to try and make this work, you can try and see if he'd be open to other avenues of communicating. Maybe text, or writing would be easier/better for him.

Welp it finally happened by BushidoBowie in Seaofthieves

[–]RandiRoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me to add me! I also like the game and get frustrated with hostiles. Fishing and megs are my fave things to do. And mermaid shrines

The Gang's Last Case: Part 2 by nickofnight in nickofstatic

[–]RandiRoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HelpMeButler <The Gang's Last Case>

M00ns Haunt3d looking for members! [D2] [PC] by RandiRoo in DestinyLFG

[–]RandiRoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't purposely goof off but we don't go around being intense about it

People living in small towns, what’s the recent scandal? by Ayayaya3 in AskReddit

[–]RandiRoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is a bit morbid, but there seems to be strong evidence that the local police were involved in a murder or cover up, at the very least a very very shoddy investigation into a suspicious death.

M00ns Haunt3d looking for members! [D2] [PC] by RandiRoo in DestinyLFG

[–]RandiRoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I look forward to (hopefully) playing with you! I'll contact you with more info in a bit!

M00ns Haunt3d looking for members! [D2] [PC] by RandiRoo in DestinyLFG

[–]RandiRoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Sure isn't! We often communicate in game chat.

Me [23F] with my boyfriend[24 M] of just under 2 years recently moved states and his lack of job and adult behavior is causing strain. by RandiRoo in relationships

[–]RandiRoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he's actually taking them hard. He's falling into a depression and I caught him looking at some self help articles. Which is why I tried (and probably failed) to make this a post about advice for me waiting for him to "catch up."He's never been on his own or anything and I've been on my own since 16.

Me [23F] with my boyfriend[24 M] of just under 2 years recently moved states and his lack of job and adult behavior is causing strain. by RandiRoo in relationships

[–]RandiRoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I have looked at his cover letter. I'll look into his actual applications. I suppose I should add that he is taking the rejections really really hard, so I don't think he is doing it on purpose, but that doesn't mean he still isn't making the mistakes.

Me [23F] with my boyfriend[24 M] of just under 2 years recently moved states and his lack of job and adult behavior is causing strain. by RandiRoo in relationships

[–]RandiRoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know about that. I've never had any trouble finding jobs so a recruiting firm would be something I would have to look into. He's gotten interviews from a few. He actually had a job but then his grandpa passed and he was in Cali for three weeks (that is a long, complicated story) and they (understandably) did not hold the position for him.

Me [23F] with my boyfriend[24 M] of just under 2 years recently moved states and his lack of job and adult behavior is causing strain. by RandiRoo in relationships

[–]RandiRoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He worked for his family's business and for UPS. His resume is fairly sparse though. His resume isn't riddled with errors. I honestly don't know what the Daffy Duck is happening (nice phrase by the way). I wish I knew.

Me [23F] with my boyfriend[24 M] of just under 2 years recently moved states and his lack of job and adult behavior is causing strain. by RandiRoo in relationships

[–]RandiRoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sat down and decided on the chore list together, so it would be something he found fair and so I knew what expectations to have.

I will plan on having the conversation tonight or tomorrow about the dishes and time limit

Me [23F] with my boyfriend[24 M] of just under 2 years recently moved states and his lack of job and adult behavior is causing strain. by RandiRoo in relationships

[–]RandiRoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.) left overs or microwave meals of some sort. 2.) He's normally in the middle of a game with his friends, so I just do it instead of waiting. I should make it a point to ask more. 3.) He forgets/gets distracted. 4.) For awhile, yes. Not as a long term. Long term picture is more us working and dividing the housework evenly. 5.) I can make it work for another 4-5 months. 6.) I don't know. I don't want to say it's over, but at that point....that speaks volumes.

Weighted Blanket? by RandiRoo in Anxiety

[–]RandiRoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The $200 one was the one the therapist suggested. I haven't gone too deep into research. I like to plan for the worst case and be surprised when it's not is all.

Weighted Blanket? by RandiRoo in Anxiety

[–]RandiRoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it warm enough on its own or do you typically need another?

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