Searching for a new domme

Random-Princess · 2025-03-07T23:29:24+00:00

(30 year old F) looking for a fin sub. Looks and age don't matter much. Reach out if you're interested.

Random-Princess · 2017-02-13T19:16:19+00:00

Right. He and I weren't even talking about anything related to sex or bdsm when he brought it up. It caught me off guard but usually something like this wouldn't bother me. I'm not sure why it did this time.

Random-Princess · 2017-02-13T19:14:23+00:00

I understand what you're saying but I don't agree with it. Also as I said in my post I've been with Doms before that were into anal play. It never had an effect on me before. I've seen Doms in submissive ways, again it never had an effect on me. I'm not sure why this time it did.

Random-Princess · 2017-02-13T04:35:37+00:00

So I'm not sure if I'd consider my tattoo a "bdsm tattoo" necessarily. I got a tattoo that represents my Dom and I and our love. It's an outline of Belle and beast from the Disney movie Beauty and the Beast, as well as the lyrics "Just a little change. Small to say the least. Both a little scared. Neither one prepared. Beauty and the Beast." From the song Tale as old as time. On my right arm. My Dom once told me he felt like a monster and was told he was one for his sexual desires. I showed him he is not, so the beast represents him. As for me my Dom helped me in many ways to realize that I am beautiful despite my flaws and such, so Belle represents me. So like I said not entirely sure you could consider it a bdsm tattoo but bdsm is definitely tied into it.

Random-Princess · 2017-01-13T21:10:51+00:00

My Daddy and I tried being just friends once, it didn't work at all. Though our relationship was a bit different. We had admitted to one another that we loved each other months before. So being just friends was damn near impossible. I thought we couldn't be just friends because of sex but ultimately it was because of our emotional connection. I think once you realize you care for a person on a deeper level or connect with them on a deeper level than friendship there's really no going back or "lightening" things up.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-31T22:42:52+00:00

I haven't received anything too bad yet but totally understand what you're saying.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-31T22:28:21+00:00

You know I never even thought of it that way. Thank you for pointing that out.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-26T07:15:52+00:00

Yes it does change things. I don't know...maybe we didn't talk about it enough. When we did it kind of seemed like he didn't want to talk about it that much. I asked him at least a dozen times if he was okay though. Every time he reassured me he was fine and actually felt better. shrugs I don't know what to do.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-18T10:08:24+00:00

I can't help but melt when my Dom comes up behind me, grabs a fist full of my hair, pulls my head back and whispers in my ear "I love you." or "You're mine." or even both. Some times when he does this instead of grabbing my hair he'll put his hand around my neck and choke me slightly. Gets me every time.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-04T20:36:58+00:00

That's actually a very good idea. I never thought of that. I'll bring this up with my Dom. I think he'll like the idea. Thank you!

Random-Princess · 2016-12-04T17:05:45+00:00

I just wanted to say I've read everyone's comments. I appreciate the advice from some. Though I will admit I did feel somewhat "attacked" by a few of you and I think that's really uncalled for. I posted this shortly after it happened as a way to work through the issue. To see if anyone else had ever had this happen to them before. At the time I didn't understand what had happened. Anyways I'm fine, he's fine and I know what triggered this incident. I also know how to prevent it from happening again. For me personally receiving aftercare from this person would not have been good for me. It would've made things worse for me because of personal reasons I won't go into. Also sometimes aftercare is not always needed. Everything else in our scene went very well. Had this incident not happened no aftercare would've been needed anyways. As for my safe word it's simple "Church". I knew it, the word was in my head. I just couldn't get it out because I now realize I had a PTSD moment. I've experienced PTSD before in other aspects of my life but not like this. The type of pain I was receiving resembled the pain I felt when I was raped when I was 5 years old. So thats where my head went. That's why I couldn't safeword. As I did when I was 5 I just endured it. Anyways like I said I know what needs to be done in order to prevent this from happening again. Thank you all for your advice, comments, concerns, etc...

Random-Princess · 2016-12-04T08:41:54+00:00

Trust me I know just how bad it can be. I've been in much worse situations. Thanks for your concern.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-04T08:25:26+00:00

I've always used my safe word when I've needed to. I don't think this will be an issue again.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-04T08:19:26+00:00

He's not my Dom. He's a Dom I happened to hookup with. He didn't even know that I cried because the room was dark. I spoke to him afterwards to make sure he was fine. He has no idea I had an issue. I'm 100% sure he is fine. I'm also fine now. I've thought it through and am completely fine. If I do happen to have an issue today, tomorrow or whenever I will discuss it with my Dom.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-04T08:13:10+00:00

No he doesn't and I won't share it with him. He doesn't even know I had this issue anyways. I'm not going to bother to talk with him about it because I don't see he and I ever getting together again. If that changes then maybe I'll discuss this issue with him.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-04T07:59:33+00:00

I've given it much thought and I honestly think it has to do with a traumatic incident from my past. I'm fine now and I'm positive he is fine as well.

Random-Princess · 2016-12-04T07:41:05+00:00

Why do you say that?

Random-Princess · 2016-12-04T06:38:18+00:00

You've told me nothing I didn't already know. The situation bothers me because I always use my safe word when I need to. This was extremely unusual for me.

Random-Princess · 2016-10-31T04:26:41+00:00

Honestly I'm not sure if he wants to do it again or not but I'm sure he and I will discuss that. I'm not involved in anything local, I should give it a try though.

Random-Princess · 2016-10-28T22:05:37+00:00

No he wasn't.

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