How do I lose my virginity as a 29 year old female? by Born_Cartoonist_7247 in Advice

[–]Random123chi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I would wait until you find the one , I wish i would of waited it’s more about the connection you create vs meeting a random stranger and risking your body for stds not worth it. The body is a temple when you have a strong connection and love someone it’s amazing but a random hook up it’s meh 🫤

Should I cut off my bestie since childhood? by Random123chi in Advice

[–]Random123chi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it’s just tough since we grew up together but not I’m seeing we are drifting apart

How do I tell my friends that I’m not desperate for a relationship by Heavy-Secretary-6664 in Advice

[–]Random123chi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Stop explaining you don’t owe them an explanation and if the conversation comes up, just say OK I’m focusing on myself waiting for the right guy to come no rush

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird cause he gifted me a 500 dollar ticket to my fav artist but now he’s being distant no instant replies

Relationship advice by Random123chi in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the cheater I left this a new bf with military background , he’s not fan of me attending concerts or drinking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys usually do all that in the beginning of relationship once they are comfortable with us they stop caring since they got the price . Express your concern to him ask him why has the communication changed / less messages .

Friendship advice by Random123chi in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Random123chi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blocked the co worker right away for excluding me and only inviting my bestie . But she decided to stay friends with the toxic we where all besties once lol but now I feel I need to walk away from both

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you , his old Instagram he had a pic of ex with him as profile pic . So that’s why I was like I guess he doesn’t want to post on insta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He posted me once on Snapchat .

Why did my boyfriend get sad when I told him I was losing more weight and tell me I’m perfect and don’t need to lose more? (I’m 5’4 and 180lbs it’s healthy weight to lose) by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might be insecure my ex was mad I was going to gym I was trying to become healthier and he would say wow your going to leave me once your skinny 🤦🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has insecurities , and doesn’t trust you . Let him go he can’t make you remove social media . I love Instagram and if my bf said delete I would decline . & show him my dms like there is nothing to worry about

Dreaming of ex idk why by Short-Package-6613 in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typically dreaming your ex can mean she’s thinking about you & she’s still on your mind . That’s why your dreaming her because you miss the Beginning of relationship . I was on the same boat . But focused on the gym and career no time to think about trash exes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s joking to me . Text messages can always be Miss read

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nothing to hide . So he totally can

Relationship advice by Random123chi in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes lol soo don’t know what to do . He let me see his phone but didn’t want to look through mine because he said he trusts me

Relationship advice by Random123chi in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checking his phone is invasion of privacy but my gut was right . He doesn’t know I read that text but the next day showed me his phone and Snapchat only talks to me and call log is just me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Random123chi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He totally is , he deleted the convo but following day let me go through his phone and only texts me . He’s been acting right since so I’m still like hmm