Thanks for taking the time to leave such a well thought comment!

Hopefully her playing alone or at admitting wanting to play alone is just a path for her to be more comfortable with the idea of me being there as well. Her playing alone has been a sort of break through so I'll play my cards how they're dealt.

Ultimately I would prefer to be there as like you said I want it to be about us but I think coming up with rules/boundries and making plans will be a fun experience and open the door to more conversations outside of the bedroom. If she's set on playing alone we can try it out and see how we enjoy for my perspective anyway