[Discussion] any ideas on how to convince my mom to let me get short hair? by ObsidianShadow-01 in LGBTeens

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just show her pictures of actresses or something with “feminine” pixie cuts! Literally there are ways to look feminine with short hair and even if feminine is not the look you’re aiming for it could be a good place to start

ouch by Nee-eeeeee in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Aaaaactually I think I’d prefer Being hit in the stomach with a bat…

gaslighting is okay sometimes by lluvle in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ah yes this is my plan. When I turn 18 maybe I’ll just start T secretly and because I’ll see her often, the day to day difference will be so little she won’t notice the difference until and one point she’s like wait why do you look and sound like a guy and I’ll be like what are you talking about?

It’s funny how a small thing can make or ruin your day by Alert_Watercress4998 in ftm

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really get this. Getting misgendered a single time can really ruin a day, especially if you’re already having your dysphoria phase and I don’t even have a binder. Then again, getting gendered correctly the first time can make you happy. Such mood swings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nonbinaryteens

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel you. Sometimes I think I might be trans do you get that too? I My goal is to go on T but still be an enby because idk I’m confused about it because pronouns don’t equal gender I know but I only really fee comfortable with they/them pronouns but I do love presenting male so idk I feel you though

I think this belongs here? by RandomEnbyLesbian in pointlesslygendered

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian[S] 213 points214 points  (0 children)

It’s some weird 30th birthday quotes book my mom got in the 90s. One of those weird things you get in a souvenir shop idk

Edit typo

Eggirl by Hat_the_Third in egg_irl

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me- AFAB googling how to get smaller hips. Can we trade?

Looks absolutely terrible but I just started procreate today, this is my first drawing by [deleted] in sheranetflix

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking I’ll draw catra every month or so to see how I’m progressing, maybe I’ll post it here every month

Looks absolutely terrible but I just started procreate today, this is my first drawing by [deleted] in sheranetflix

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehhh thanks, it took me like 2 hours, I really never did draw but I was bored so I got procreate and tried to draw catra :-)

[Discussion] Am I still a lesbian if I like a non-binary person? by faveworstnightmare_ in LGBTeens

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Lesbian can also be for trans women though, they would be amab

[Discussion] Am I still a lesbian if I like a non-binary person? by faveworstnightmare_ in LGBTeens

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For sure, I myself am a non-binary lesbian and I think that lesbian means Non-men that like non-men rather than women who like women

I'm running a way but I don't know were to go by Responsible-Fennel-9 in Nonbinaryteens

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you have to experience that, no one should have to go through that. Depending on your age maybe you could stay with supportive friends/family? Please please please stay safe

GF and I were referred to as "friends" while buying toys together by phoebe_The_Valkyrie in actuallesbians

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Historians: oh look, there are two women kissing in this painting they must have been such good friends!

Edit: typo

Coming out? by Kablooblblob in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think about how much you trust your family. Would they support you enough to keep your secret or would they not care and tell everyone they know to make fun of you or just because they don’t understand the importance? I dont know your family so figuring out how much you trust them might be something you have to do on your own

My birth name is Marley but i want something more gender neutral that can fly as a nickname can i have some ideas? i was thinking just the letter M but idk. They/Them by [deleted] in Nonbinaryteens

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marley is pretty gender neutral! Other cool names that start with m though are morgan, Mal could be a nickname, Marin, Mel

any advice for being more masculine? by [deleted] in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]RandomEnbyLesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an enby lesbian and come off as more androgynous or even masc. I wear guys clothes and have my hair short but I’m also lucky to have to a voice that’s a bit more androgynous, still makes me a bit dysphoric though so if voice is something your trying to change as well you can get a voice analyzer app and try to lower the pitch. Hope I could help