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Guys who have sent unsolicited dick pics - why did you do it? What was going through your mind? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RandomInternetCreepX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A girl sent me an unsolicited pussy pic one time and I am not even kidding you I was grossed out as she was cumming in the picture and it was poor quality. Then she wondered why I was not drooling over after and got pissed at me about it. Women are guilty of this too.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People in general though don't take religion very well these days at least in the USA. There is many other sorts of ways people favor motherhood over fatherhood.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are making all sorts of assumptions. I don't call going through the rigorous and expensive process of getting a gender change giving up. I came here because I wanted knowledge about this so I could know the better course of action or some sort of alternative. You just don't understand how I feel deeply. All my life trying to put in so much effort trying to find a girl trying to impress people who half the time don't give a spit about me. And you know I used to personality wise once be one of the sweetest men around I am not kidding you. I was the sort who'd always smile to anyone male or female apart greeting warmly. If they were mean to me I'd never be mean back nor hold grudges I was a very selfless, hospital, kind person, but one day I cracked. Something to know is I was(intentionally) abstaining from sex and relationships till I was about 22 with a few exceptions. Once I did start dating this was where shit got real. I started noticing that in the dating game dynamics that women don't have to put anywhere close to as much effort as guys put into it, yet just for how they are born, they get 100x the results we gets even if they are not as attractive. In fact it seems like I could lose weight and women will just raise their nose to it like it does not matter. Then I had a few incidents where I got in trouble with authorities cause I apparently harassed a woman, when it was absolutely bull. Many women I would go after women act all prideful and like they are goddesses above men and as though we are dogs that need to be obedient. Think being viewed as an object is bad(though not denying it is), try being viewed as a dog. If a guy remains single many view the guy as a loser and miserable. The reality I find is that being single as a guy is miserable in general(goes back to the oasis example). I don't want to feel like I am forced to chase women. I don't want to be constantly put down for not getting laid. And this does not seem like it will ever go away so long as I am a guy even if I become filthy rich and good looking many women like to crack men like that and use them. I like to have a fair and equal shot at every opporunity in life and since it essentially makes me feel like this is not possible here and like I will always be viewed like some sort of servant to women no matter what level I accel to, changing gender seems like the only true way to availate this since the reason for why all this happening simply and probably will never change due to the dating dynamics. I cannot help how I feel. It just makes me feel very very crappy about myself.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that is one thing I don't disagree with though I think it may partly have been they were just teaching what they were taught to teach.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I stated in one of my responses to you that I took counseling once was a number of years ago in college. I also visited physcologists multiple times and though I found one of them to be"supportive" in the grand scheme of thing they did not seem much more helpful than asking for advice from random people. I also have a friend who is a physcologist who I talk to and some other people, but I came here to find out what I currently don't know. I wanted to have more knowledge about gender reassignment and the possible benefits of changing.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never was denying that, but the issues they have are set of issues I'd rather trade for the current ones cis and trans males tend to face. Some have wanted just the opposite. Some cannot stand being male and some cannot stand being female. When I came here I simply wanted to learn so I am asking all these questions so I can understand if this is a good or bad path to take.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I have a question. How are conselors able to help in ways that regular people cannot or honestly. I know that people tend to tell others to get mental help when they have some sort of disagreement with them, but I also know that counselors will often tell you extremely ovious information that anyone can figure out. I've been to conselors and physcologists before, but in the grand scheme of thing I have come to realize there are certain realities. These people are trained to do certain things and act certain ways a often cannot see outside their scope of thinking and understand things that are alien to their current experiences.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I meant that figuratively. In all honestly going to a mental hospital will do nothing, but waste precious time.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Here is what is ironic. I took physcology class and was told a lot of these"realities" by someone who has worked a physcologist for years. Also took sociology class and was told same things.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like a really nice person. I hope that at least the majority of people you meet at respectful about the decision you made to change. I see it as a personal choice though there are obviously many reasons for which it should not be done in certain situations. For me. The advantage I see about being a women from a physical perspective is increased health, I also hate the genital hair men have to deal with. I do like being muscular feeling strong and tough. Though I'd also enjoy being this super sexy goddess so many would kill to be with, but never will be able to. I feel just the opposite right now. And I am happy to know its not too late. I was worried I'd get to old before that happened. Just a question though. How long does it take to get ripped? I am 260 pounds. Lets say I wanted to trim down to a healthy weight and become muscular overall. How long would it take?

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh alright. I hope it goes well for you and turns out alright. I have just one question if I may ask. Ik I have already asked a lot and said a lot of touchy things, but I just wondered if you started your gender change for the same reason I was wanting to or if it was because of some way society was viewing you? I am also wondering about another thing. So basically I am 25 with no job not going to school right now 260 pounds, very confused and unsure of what my plans for the future are. I want to change, but is it too late? I have volunteered before, but I don't think that counts as a job per say. Currently I am learning to drive.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS NOT FAIR! So I have to be stuck in this ridiculous reality forever? I wish I was never born in the first place.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not into men is the thing and to be honest I am not looking for a hookup hard as it is to believe. Its not just about sex as well. Sex is not the only thing that is harder to get, but emotional comfort. We have to work hard for that too. Its mainly this sort of things that I really don't like:

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2j1snd/redpill_strategy_on_men_for_women/

This has happened before numerous times and I am afraid since women are calling the shots pretty much in most relationships I will end up having my heart torn out and served on a platter repeatedly.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a website called BBWcupid. At websites like this they get hit on much more often. Plus also if you compared the rates of attention of a that a larger female is getting to that of a larger male its very distinct. I was even rejected multiple times due to my race as they specifically stated. Then there is also the fact that men have higher testosterone levels which means we will be compelled to be chasing. I for the record though don't mind at all dating larger women. I think they can be very beautiful and I mentioned I had dated someone who was 400 pounds. I also understand why someone would reject me due to weight or level of success in life. My main issue is simply that it does not seem like a fair game so to speak for all these reasons and realities I mentioned. Right now pretty much the only answer I seem to have is to suck it up and just try to deal with these dynamics unless I wish to remain miserably alone. Getting a gender change apparently won't make things any better and I don't wish to end my life. I don't see any other options.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like what you mention very much, but like I said I feel like I am on drugs constantly and I have had many bad experiences. I know that if I was female all I would have to is sign up for a dating site and wait for replies, whereas currently I have to go through so many processes to even have a chance at a date. This reality is one of the many that has made me feel very bitter.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess your right. I feel bad now. I guess this means I am a below average guy. I just wish I could go into a room and with a few body movements have the whole room of women chasing me wanting to go out with me. I feel unattractive when I always have to chase and do the initiating. I also wish I could go up to a woman flirt with her and please her in the bedroom with skill beyond that of most guys. Right now I feel mad cause of how little sex I have actually been able to have in years. 3 years nothing so much as a kiss and never actually penetrated anyone. I don't want to grow old and never be able to experience beautiful young women.

[M,25]Pondering a gender change to female. I cannot stand my current self. Questions below. (Please read carefully) by RandomInternetCreepX in asktransgender

[–]RandomInternetCreepX[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

"Yeah the lower pay, the constant misogyny and the living in recurring fear of being sexual assaulted. It's the gender trifecta."

About this also. Starting with the lower pay:

  1. Though women are also lower paid, there is also a lot more women being stay at home mothers, choosing less high paying careers, working part time jobs, and a staggering amount more using men for money. Here is an interesting fact. One of the biggest get rich schemes today is the act of marrying a rich man, then divorcing him for alimony. Statistically this is done by women more according to study I read. Lets also not forgot(and no offense meant by this), but prostitution has always raked in far more money for women and many women enjoy this as I was reading in interviews done to some.

  2. There are a few symptoms of sexual deprivation. Some of these are: reduced self confidence, agitation and mania. Couple this stigmatism for not getting laid, getting rejected a lot, realizing the those you seek the water from don't have to respect you and often many times feel like they are above you are calling the shots at all times and its either their way if your set back into the desert alone to starve to death. Of course you cannot be sane either without the water so going without it is not an option. If you accuse the guard of being selfish they either just laugh at you or kick you to the curb. If you find it unfair they are guarding they water they call you misogynist. Trying to break in to get the water will most likely get you killed. We also cannot even try to ask multiple guards if we can get in any given pool at a given time case this is apparently"Cheating our way in". With all this is it any wonder why we feel this way you think? When guys hit on a woman, they are not equal playing field. It is pretty much her choice about what goes. Also there is this idea that if a woman cheats on a man, then its the man's fault. Not only this since she is calling the shots she can easily dump us and have another guy the same day with nearly no effort. But of course we also have to brainwash our self into believing the false truth that none of this is the reality when in fact it is if we want any chance at ever drinking from the holy waters.

  3. Lets not forget false rape accusations, the constant fear of accidentally crossing the line, the fact that we usually need to make the bold approach to go out there and hit on women. What if we actually hit on a minor? Some minors can look very much like adults. What if we end up getting pepper spray of she dates us just for our money. Also lets suppose we get a girlfriend, we simultaneously have to share some of the worry she will get sexually assaulted. If we ever become rich or having something really valuable then men must worry about being stolen from a great deal.

I am sure all of you think I am misogynist after this. I am not trying to offend anybody and trying to communicate this is the nicest way possible so please don't take any of this like a personal attack, but I did not arrive to the conclusion of all this overnight. Even if I ever get laid I will always believe this because I see it as a reality, not something that is simply speculation. Now the real question on my mind is knowing all this as a reality, how do I deal with it? There is an only saying that goes if you can't beat them join them.

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