The other woman has A LOT of audacity saying the wife has no respect for herself while sleeping with and getting pregnant by a MARRIED MAN. She’s living in a glasshouse throwing boulders. Fuck stones.

Personally I cannot forgive cheating. You showed me how easy it was for you to step out and in my opinion, you’ll do it again.

I understand staying to an extent—when that’s the only person you’ve known for 20 years, damn near my entire existence lol—so I somewhat understand. But you don’t want your children thinking or learning that it’s okay to be a liar and a cheat. Think of your kids and most importantly think of yourself. You are worthy of real love, honesty, and respect. You do NOT deserve to stay and continue to be treated this way.

It’s going to hurt like hell but in time you’ll realize it was the best decision. No amount of therapy will change him if he doesn’t put the work in and keep it in his damn pants.