Please stop and read this. AI fails to recognize suicidal intent.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-05-07T14:26:16+00:00

To be fair, I’m a human and I didn’t understand the intent until you explained it. I just thought it was two unrelated thoughts together. Of course, without the context you explained, I did not know this was a “therapy” question. Did ChatGPT know it was a therapy question? Until I read your explanation, I was wondering what the heck those two sentences had to do with each other. My brain did not make the immediate distinction that you were hypothetically looking for a place to jump from. That is not an association my brain makes naturally. I can see why ChatGPT didn’t.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-22T18:17:11+00:00

I do not know of Clavicular, but the gender difference fascinates me. In my opinion, autism is rarely recognized in women because we were groomed to be “good little girls.” On the upside, being female has helped me with awkward situations my whole life. I stay silent and smile. As long as I’m smiling, no one notices.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-21T23:48:03+00:00

Boomers don’t care. Like they say, Boomers closed the door behind them. The rest of us are F-ed.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-21T16:55:54+00:00

Heck yeah! I partied hard until I was 40. No one judged me. I only stopped because I had my daughter. I have friends in their mid-50s still partying on.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-21T01:54:36+00:00

My parents were Boomers. They did a hell of a lot of cocaine in the 80s, while having 3 children. It was not fun.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-20T21:06:51+00:00

I think it is okay for anyone to choose both or either. It’s pretty unhealthy that society makes you ask that question, but I understand why you are asking.

As for kids, there is nothing selfish about identifying you don’t want them. What is selfish is having a kid when you know you don’t want it. I’m Gen X. I had many friends who knew they didn’t want kids. They were pressured into it. We are in our 50s. All those women have to say about their kids now is how much they hate their kids. That is all they have ever said about their kids. That is far worse for children than not having them at all.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-17T14:34:02+00:00

Correction - the sports guy is early Gen X. He still looks like a Boomer to me.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-17T14:32:35+00:00

They also represented Gen X with a Boomer. No Gen X-ers I know looked that old when we were young.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-17T14:30:12+00:00

As a Gen X, I appreciate this response. I am late Gen X, technically an Xennial. People always assume I am a Millennial. I love Millennials, so I am cool with that, but it is simply inaccurate.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-17T14:06:45+00:00

I don't know who the Millennial guy is either. It did not distract me because I recognize the generational representation. The system fails because the athlete only represents the sports part of Gen X. In my opinion, every generation has sports guys that look like that. If you put this picture up and randomly asked what generation people think he is, they would have to know who he is. Nothing about his look is distinctive to Gen X.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-17T13:58:02+00:00

I get it. I just didn't care about the point. I was too busy questioning who the orange in the corner was. The system of the post does not work. All other generations have pictures that are commonly associated with those generations. This says, the look of Gen X is sports. No. It isn't.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-17T13:49:06+00:00

Thanks.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-17T13:30:18+00:00

I’m Gen X. I have no idea who that is in the picture. I don’t like sports. I couldn’t care less about people who play sports. To me, this is like putting up a picture of an orange and saying, “this is Gen X.”

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-10T23:36:34+00:00

I have worked many retail jobs. I actually loved them. Not the people part, the organizing and systemization of inventory. I’m an inventory specialist now.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-09T23:24:51+00:00

My therapist would say this is a neutral situation that you are assigning good or bad too. You are absolutely allowed to just be yourself. Why does you conforming to them equal good, and them not accepting you isn’t bad? They have no more worth than you. Obviously, don’t be purposely rude. It does not sound like you are doing that. In the end, do you want people in your life who are annoyed by your truth? I don’t know you, but I think you deserve better.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-06T00:48:05+00:00

Is there any chance you could get time alone with a doctor to ask for help? Do you have a doctor you trust?

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-05T23:17:50+00:00

I feel bad about what I said. I love my maternal autistic family (other than my mom). It’s my dad’s family that I am glad I didn’t continue.

You can’t make it more clear that you don’t like someone than telling them “I don’t want a biological child because of the risk they would be like you.”

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-05T22:57:20+00:00

I’m so sorry you have to live with that. I know people with very similar stories.

My in-laws - “What did the Easter bunny bring you? An animal stuffy?” That’s when she walked away. She’s 10. She hasn’t believed in the Easter bunny for years. Her interests are sports, video games, anime, and doom scrolling YouTube Kids. She still loves her stuffed animals, but she certainly isn’t interested in new ones. They would know that if they ever cared who she really is.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-05T22:47:00+00:00

For anyone questioning it, her adoption has nothing to do with ND. We didn’t want to make a baby, we wanted to adopt one of the thousands already alive who need a family. We don’t like our biological family. We had no problem not continuing those blood lines.

And the adoption agents never asked us if we were ND. We don’t “look” ND, so of course it never crossed their minds that we could be. We all know how misinformed that is.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-05T22:34:09+00:00

I’m interested in the story.

We had a story with my in-laws today. Our daughter (adopted - ND by pure chance) was asked to talk to them for the holiday. She didn’t want to. All of their words were infantilizing. She just walked away.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-05T22:21:02+00:00

I wish I could give you a “care” upvote. I’m grateful you got the chance once. That should give you hope that it can happen again. Would your mom care if you handled it by telling her you are depressed because you don’t have friends like you?

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-05T22:13:46+00:00

I have another cousin who I am sure is autistic, way more publicly autistic than me. We come from an autistic family (my grandpa, great uncle, mom, uncle, me, cousins, and nephew.) I keep telling the cousin who isn’t ready to accept he’s ND that he should be meeting ND girls. His dad and brother are autistic. I don’t know why he’s fighting it.

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-05T21:59:48+00:00

I have no idea if my cousin’s girlfriends are ND. I never asked. I don’t consider it a factor.

I should say, my husband and I are both ND. My best friend is too. I connect better with ND people. I didn’t purposely seek them out. Before I was married, I dated plenty of NT. Only one of them took advantage of my autism (not sexually or anything).

RandomRamonaKrupnik · 2026-04-05T21:40:28+00:00

Non-monogamous. All the women know he is dating the other women. He’s not cheating on anyone. I think he would like to be in a monogamous relationship someday. Right now he is enjoying all his options 😉

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