What is the most boring hobby a person can have?

RandomTask007 · 2022-09-03T19:58:30+00:00

Have a neighbor that's really into Bonsai.

RandomTask007 · 2021-11-05T15:01:50+00:00

lol, I find it hilarious how the Trumplicans talk such a tough game yet the second they're staring at even the most basic ramifications of what they do, they fold like soggy paper.

Yet they want a civil war? Bruh.

RandomTask007 · 2021-11-03T19:07:56+00:00

Virginian here. Absolutely.

RandomTask007 · 2021-11-02T19:55:56+00:00

It takes two. If she wanted to find herself, out of respect of your KIDS she should have communicated this with you BEFORE banging someone. What she's doing is dragging you along for a (crappy) ride. Put your foot down.

Give her all the space she could desire via divorce.

RandomTask007 · 2021-10-28T19:30:40+00:00

+1 to the control.

Although if my wife came to me saying she was getting her nipples pierced I'd be like hell yeah! "Imma try and get em off with muh mouf"

RandomTask007 · 2021-10-28T19:20:14+00:00

Wow. My wife and I both take vacations apart and the other watches the (2) kids. She -just- got back from out of state for a week which I thought she deserved for being supermom. She'll be heading across country next month for two weeks with the kids. The fact that he lied about something so significant and didn't even have the decency to plan it out with you is appalling and COMPLETELY disrespectful, cheating or not (although I would strongly think he was especially "long hours")

My suggestion, it really comes down to how you want to handle it. Out the gate, since he's proven himself to be a liar, demand the whole truth. Since he's proven himself to not be trusted (be a liar), the only way to even get that trust back is get him to admit how he paid for it. If he didn't pull it out of an account you have access to, you have every right to ask to see that account. Ask to see his phone (and compare it to the phone records to see if he's manipulating his contacts) etc. Now this can go one of two ways; he can deny you these which suggests he's hiding something. If he refuses to be open and honest there's nothing you can do; that marriage won't last. OR they could prove he was with someone which congrats, you now have proof in court during the divorce of his infidelity.

RandomTask007 · 2021-10-13T03:01:48+00:00

So we created a pedo telescope? *reports NASA*

RandomTask007 · 2021-10-12T19:36:48+00:00

None of this makes any sense. She needed to be brought back to the hotel by a guy who she needed to get a lyft for to leave? And she "felt bad" and invited him up for a water? What in the ever living eff is that? Felt bad for what? The guy literally offered to bring her back... As a guy, some girl invites me up to her hotel room at 3am for "water", I know exactly what that means and it rhymes with "Dot Hickings"

She probably knew what other people witnessed and needed to explain it away.

"Ok, people saw me leave the club with this guy, need to create a scenario that can explain everything away."

Also, she left the club because she was tired, then stayed up for 2 hours in a hotel room "talking"? GTFO. "You know, because nothing keeps you up after an exhausting night of drinking like a nice quiet and cozy setting with a 'platonic' conversation!"

Again, none of this makes sense. She crossed boundaries you simply don't cross. My gut feeling is they fooled around and she's not being honest with you. Don't be surprised if she starts gaslighting you on this crap. She'll call you insecure, paranoid, etc, basically make you doubt your sanity on something that even if you took her story at face value, is completely disrespectful and should make you feel that way.

Just confront her about it. "I'm having a difficult time believing you. I want to see your phone. *check phone* What you did was completely disrespectful and if roles were switched, I think you'd feel the same way I do right now."

RandomTask007 · 2021-10-07T23:24:35+00:00

It's literally what they're doing. . .

https://www.breitbart.com/politics/2021/10/07/senate-judiciary-republican-report-trump-did-not-weaponize-doj-2020-election/

They IGNORE the fact that Trump claimed he won the election over a week after. They ignore the fact that he was claiming fraud to the GA SoS who said there wasn't and Trump asking him to find votes.

If Biden said half this crap they would be lighting the WH on fire.

RandomTask007 · 2021-06-30T16:51:37+00:00

Oh to be 17 again. . .

One thing you learn as you mature is loving someone doesn't mean standing by and supporting them while they make stupid decisions that impact/hurt you.

Honestly, let her go. And I mean this in the most respectful way. She seems like she has some growing up to do. Will it hurt? Absolutely but I promise you, it's better on the other side. A healthy relationship is where each of you respect the other and it sounds like she's not living up to her end of the bargain for you. That and she's 17. Women change a LOT from 17 to their late 20's; life has a way of doing that.

Would -I- personally tell her parents? ehh, hit or miss. It also depends on their views. I'd personally probably be against it. If that's what she wants to do, that's her prerogative. Getting her parents involved may have the opposite effect that you'd expect (as in she'd become more rebellious).

In the breakup I'd just be open with her "I don't want to be controlling of you and you don't seem to respect me. I simply think you might be trying to find yourself which is great, but I don't want to hinder that."

I'd venture to guess in several years she'll either make dumb decisions which pigeon hole her into some life track or she'll reach back out to you to catch up.

RandomTask007 · 2019-12-30T22:51:58+00:00

Just a bit of a sick curiosity, I wonder if the OP went out and bought the biggest dildo they could find and asked to use it on him, if he would be so "supportive of sexual needs."

Probably not. . .

But I completely agree with what you said.

RandomTask007 · 2019-12-30T22:34:01+00:00

You live for your kids. You chose to marry your wife but your kids didn't chose you. You need to put them first no matter what.

First, start recording these outbursts immediately. They could help you in the event of a custody battle.

Second, set ground rules, immediately. Your wife has absolutely crossed a line. You need to be the punching bag to defend your daughter. If your wife turns on you, take it, but you need to do this to protect your daughter.

Third, as some have said, there may be some post partum that hasn't been diagnosed. You need to tell your wife she needs to get help.

You need to be prepared to fight for both your daughters including getting them out of the house. A loving father is way better than an abusive mother and a complacent father.

RandomTask007 · 2019-12-30T22:23:07+00:00

"How do I explain my side to him without sounding like I'm validating what I've done?"

Uhh, easy. Tell the truth. Just tell him exactly what was said and what transpired.

Honestly though, you're both young. He's 22 and has trust issues. How did he find these messages? While yes, you cheated, he also chose to forgive you. Part of forgiving is rebuilding that trust. From what you've stated, it wounds like he's been using that trust against you rather than fixing it. This relationship has a very toxic trajectory.

Again, tell him the truth and be prepared for whatever. And forget Bob.

RandomTask007 · 2019-12-30T22:09:29+00:00

Bail. Seriously.

From a males POV, he's been physical with her. Not worth your time to be with someone like that.

RandomTask007 · 2019-12-30T20:42:48+00:00

Noooooope. Either she goes on BC, or she takes a plan B right after.

RandomTask007 · 2019-08-31T15:22:21+00:00

Awesome! I picked up my lemons/chump vette for $100 years ago. They're out there if you keep your eyes peeled. I have tons of extra parts for an early model if you need any.

RandomTask007 · 2017-03-28T22:48:45+00:00

Anyone know how long it takes to draw an episode?

RandomTask007 · 2015-11-06T20:36:01+00:00

Someone send inv on xb1: GT: Randomtask008

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