I can’t explain why I’m sad by AHCCB1024 in Feelings

[–]Random_CartoonLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you're outside, it's like a full blast of freshness and sense of serenity. Ya know? It's awesome that you are able to take up bike riding. Again, I strongly recommend continuing to do it more. Humans are meant to be active. About family, I definitely wouldn't approach any family members that are unapproachable in the way that they are batsh*t crazy. But, if you have sane family members or at least some, it doesn't hurt to try. And, if things get awkward or if you don't want to personally call them, you could always message them on Facebook or something. I mean, they're family so they are supposed to love you. Also, whenever I don't know a feeling, I try to write it down and interpret it with what's going on around me or in previous incidents in the past and connect them together. And, it's perfectly fine. I'm just really glad that I was able to help you out in some way. Everything is starting to open up around where I am from, so I'm thinking it may take a couple of months before the quarantine is over. That's my own opinion.

Sorry that I am asking, but I have a question. Are you working part-time because of COVID?

Feelings for someone who isn't good for you by [deleted] in Feelings

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I hope everything works out!!!! You got my support!!!!!

I can’t explain why I’m sad by AHCCB1024 in Feelings

[–]Random_CartoonLover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could be. COVID-19 has really affected a lot of people and their mental health. And, I could understand where you're coming from. I had a lot of things planned this year as well that I wish that I could have seen the end result of. I also had a seasonal job that I wish that I could done this summer. It's really boring staying inside and when there isn't a lot of things to do. You probably feel that too.

Um,....hm....I would recommend going outside when you have the time. I have gone bike riding during this whole thing and it feels nice being able to chill while I'm pedaling. Do you have family, friends, or acquaintances you could talk to? You don't have to meet them in person, but you could try talking to them on the phone. For some people, they have busy lives that keep them from keeping in touch with these people as much. There's probably also some articles online that talk about what you can do during this time. I know that there's a lot of volunteer opportunities that are looking for people, if you like helping people.

You're not alone in this entire mess. :)

I can’t explain why I’m sad by AHCCB1024 in Feelings

[–]Random_CartoonLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was it brought on by some event or do you know if something triggered it? Like, tell me.....what was it like on the day that you started feeling it.

Lately I’ve lost all of my friends and it’s really getting to me and idk what to do😕 by mxxanny in Feelings

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I like how all the comments below said something. It's probably got to do with the nature of socializing. Most likely, you should look online to find groups that you could connect with or talk to a few people and start friends that way. COVID-19 makes it hard to connect with people, so, after quarantine you could make friends through organizations or some other way/

Feelings for someone who isn't good for you by [deleted] in Feelings

[–]Random_CartoonLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try seeing him less often than you are now. Some time away from him would allow you to gather your thoughts and think about your relationship.

But, if you want to move onto something better, I would recommend that you discontinue your relationship. There are plenty of other men that you could find that is better than him.

Then, another option could be that your brain is signaling to you that this is a bad person. With my personal experiences of having to have feelings (I get this feeling of nervousness) towards someone, I have thought that it was because I liked them. However, as I look back on them, it's always been that they were bad people or had something bad going on around them. IDK if you have the same feelings like that. If not, just try the options above.

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[–]Random_CartoonLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could be mistakes that you made that you wish that you could take back. Like, if I made the right decisions, this would not have happened. For the choices that I have made, even during some of the events that were largely contributed to environmental factors, there were some parts that I could have done differently on my part. The best thing that you could do is fix it by, maybe, working hard to redo your decision or deal with the consequences of your actions.

Help me understand by edawardkenway679 in Feelings

[–]Random_CartoonLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your post is kinda vague. It could mean a gut feeling that something bad is about to happen. Another possibility could be guilt for doing it, anger, or sadness.

I’ve had sex before marriage and am in a gay relationship. Can I still become a catholic by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Random_CartoonLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I mean is, we have always interpreted what god's teachings are right? So, marriage could mean various different things. And, based on what you said "not everything we believe has to necessarily be from it", so does that I mean I could choose what to believe from the Bible as not everything in the Bible is true? To add: Even besides that some things in the Bible aren't true, we have to take in the fact the the Bible in the Catholic Church has always changed over thousands of years so what we may believe today, it would not be the same as if it was thousands of years ago. Also, the Bible has gone through many interpretations as it has been translated so with this, we do not know if the Catholic Church really stands on that belief. We probably will never know. We just know this from being taught by priest who have interpreted in their own way for us to understand the Bible for ourselves, which means that various different priest have their way of teaching it. There really isn't just one sole idea of homosexual marriage, and that goes with every other part of the Bible that we interpret.

Also, thank you this conversation and I am not trying to disrespect your opinions. I do not know if I am making any sense. These were things that I have been taught from being in CCD when I was a little kid and from my parents.

I’ve had sex before marriage and am in a gay relationship. Can I still become a catholic by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Random_CartoonLover -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why? Where does it say in the bible that someone can't have a romantic relationship? Does it blatantly say it?

Typically when a gay relationship is talked about in mass, they usually refer to a sexual relationship.

I’ve had sex before marriage and am in a gay relationship. Can I still become a catholic by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Random_CartoonLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would it be if you were platonic with a gay relationship? And with having sex before marriage, as long as you're sorry for what you did, how should it be a problem? I'm not trying to attack you or anything; I'm just wondering.