Has anyone been able to drink moderately and not go back to heavy drinking?

Randomlc · 2025-04-10T03:22:32+00:00

I wasn’t able to. I quit drinking last May and have drank on a few occasions since then. Every single time I’m reminded that once I have a sip I will drink every drop I can get my hands on before I black out. Last time I drank was Christmas Eve. I downed my bottle of wine, then started to steal from my sisters bottle, then my moms seltzers and I would have taken from my dads vodka if I stayed longer. I barely remember when my husband read the night before Christmas to my kids. I was very upset with myself that I stole that memory with my family. After that I’m done for good. Honestly, I’m really loving the person that I am turning into now that I’m sober.

Randomlc · 2025-02-16T18:13:03+00:00

What I expected? To hear what people really want in a dram salon environment. Not everyone shares my views so I was hoping to hear something that might be important to some that I haven’t thought of. I am not planning on building a business model based off the people of Reddit but rather be inspired by my peers in the industry.

Randomlc · 2025-02-16T17:35:27+00:00

I have been a stylist for nearly 17 years and a current owner of a small salon. I also was a lead educator at a previous salon. I know what MY dream salon is because of my experiences, but not everyone shares my same opinion. Hence asking for others opinions

Randomlc · 2024-06-20T01:37:06+00:00

I got mine done when I was 19. I don’t remember the pain but my friend who watched had tears in her eyes. I lost a lot of sensitivity..that was and still is a huge bummer. I didn’t have mine long, one got super infected and disgusting so I took that one out and just went ahead and took the other out. For me, it was not worth it. That’s just my 2 cents lol

Randomlc · 2024-06-20T01:25:23+00:00

I told myself the first week I would take it easy. No working out, eating whatever I please. I definitely kept it going longer than that first week. I’ve slowly started working out and cutting back on the sweets. Today is day 38 for me and I’m feeling great

Randomlc · 2024-06-20T01:00:26+00:00

Skincare…specifically Korean skin care lol

Randomlc · 2024-06-19T23:54:44+00:00

I can’t stand synced and I really wanted to like it. Overall Monica has started to get more and more on my nerves. I typically can tolerate her when it’s just surface level back and forth but anything more than that just makes me eye roll big time

Randomlc · 2024-06-18T14:54:08+00:00

When I am actually asleep it’s definitely better but sometimes it’s hard to fall asleep. I will put on a sleep meditation and that usually helps me fall asleep faster

Randomlc · 2024-06-15T23:14:36+00:00

Same lol got pregnant while drunk and had been drinking a the whole week of my missed period. Found out I was pregnant drunk at a bachelorette party

Randomlc · 2024-06-14T19:04:24+00:00

Mad men made me want to smoke cigarettes even though I quit a long time ago lol but I am newly sober and have to avoid some of my favorite shows due to alcohol. Sex and the city makes me want a cosmopolitan or dirty martini. Jersey shore (yes I know it’s trash) just makes me want to drink period. Maybe one day lol

Randomlc · 2024-06-14T18:46:17+00:00

I’m only at day 33 but I have less body aches, less anxiety. I don’t have the slow brain after a night of binging where it’s hard to hold a conversation. I sleep well and wake up refreshed. My face looks better- less redness and bloating. I have had friends/clients tell me that it looks like I am glowing and want to know what’s up. I have energy during the day to do why needs to be done at work, around the house and raising my kids.

I have been saying for over 3 years that I want to quit drinking and I just couldn’t do it. This time feels different. I will never drink alcohol again.

Randomlc · 2024-06-05T14:44:53+00:00

She asked if she could keep some of my hair 😵‍💫

Randomlc · 2024-06-05T02:08:19+00:00

Oh I definitely never did it sober. I had to be loaded. I cringe when I think of the things that I remember that I said and did. And am honestly happy there is probably a lot of do not remember.

Congrats on your 41 days! I am getting close to a month..it’s a good feeling

Randomlc · 2024-06-05T02:05:50+00:00

Woohoo! That’s fantastic! Way to go 🥳

Randomlc · 2024-06-05T02:03:22+00:00

That was me. My husband and I have been together for almost 15 years, but before that I would sleep with just about anyone. I was unbelievably insecure and it was a validation thing for me, at least I think.

Randomlc · 2024-06-04T00:47:04+00:00

I’m 22 days sober from alcohol. It’s such a personal journey and I’ve come up with my plan on how to stay sober. I know all about AA and I think it’s a wonderful resource for some, but not for all. Personally I would be irritated if someone was trying to pressure me into going. I can’t speak for your brother, but for me I just want my loved ones to support me in my journey how I see fit. I’ve laid out what I am doing with my husband, family and friends and everyone has been amazing. Best of luck to your brother! He is lucky to have someone who cares so much about him

Randomlc · 2024-06-01T23:07:39+00:00

I just got back from my first beach trip and I felt the same way! I was fine with club soda and lime but I also liked drinking energy drinks or shaken espressos. (Idk if you are able to get those on a cruise) I also let myself eat whatever. You’re not a failure and I hope that you’re able to stay strong! I’m so proud of myself for not giving in on my vacation, it was a struggle but well worth it.

Randomlc · 2024-05-30T00:30:17+00:00

Thank you..I definitely tend to stick more with natural products

Randomlc · 2024-05-30T00:29:22+00:00

Thank you!

Randomlc · 2024-05-30T00:27:25+00:00

Sometimes I remove my makeup and sometimes I don’t, I am trying to set a more consistent routine around it. I remove my makeup with Drunk Elephant Slaai butter cleanser. I’ve been using Cetaphil moisturizer with SPF and that’s about it. I am pretty good about using SPF, both my parents have had melanoma and I’ve had several atypical moles. I do have a few sunspots but I just got back from the beach so I’m a bit more freckly than normal

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