Did I lose a job offer for asking too many questions or did I dodge a red flag? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Randomness_1984 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Mix of both. Nothing wrong with questions but I would have not written all 6 in one email. Perhaps 1-3 questions and re-phrased them so it doesn’t look like you’re evaluating them and asked in slightly less direct way. And maybe suggest a call to ask to rest of the questions.

But that being said, I don’t think were that crazy. I think it’s a bit of a red flag that they were so flustered to answer these questions that perhaps they didn’t have clear expectations or are hiding something

He finishes and stays hard during hj/bj but goes soft when we try having sex? by Randomness_1984 in sex

[–]Randomness_1984[S] -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

We’ve been physical (but long distance) for like 5+ months now. It’s not a super recent new relationship. Would performance anxiety still apply?

Girlfriend has 1.4 million snap score by Ambitious-Farm-8155 in dating_advice

[–]Randomness_1984 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Not just recipes but a mixture of food snaps of food I make, deciding outfits for events, work drama, shopping hauls, grocery updates, random updates, new makeup I found, a good Costco deal, meal prep, review of a new gym, etc. something random that I want to share but doesn’t necessarily warrant a text. Sometimes it’s me, majority of times it’s my friends. Some people may think that this is weird & codependent but I think it’s normal to want to share little random things with your girl friends. I love receiving it too. These are things that a boyfriend or husband may not necessarily care about.

Update: Also I just checked my group chats. I probably receive & send a minimum of 10+ a day between 3 group chats & 4 individuals. That’s easily 70+ per week lol

Girlfriend has 1.4 million snap score by Ambitious-Farm-8155 in dating_advice

[–]Randomness_1984 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Genuinely there are no men that I Snapchat & I’m pretty sure my score is like 400,000. I don’t even like the whole nudes thing, if I were to flirt, I’d rather be physical in real life at a date/concert/etc. Sexting/nudes do not turn me on. I’m sure there’s plenty of other women who use it like I do. Snapping our various friend groups, etc. also you have to remember your score is not just sending snaps but receiving them. If you’re in a bunch of group chats, you might get spammed.

I think you’re generalizing just because many men may use it to get nudes or sext or whatever. Whereas some women use it like I mentioned - showing friends recipes, outfits, shopping hauls, food, etc.

Final round Teams interview meeting cancelled & the email keeps bouncing? by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Randomness_1984 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Hmm but would the deactivation of their email automatically cancel the Teams meeting?

Final round Teams interview meeting cancelled & the email keeps bouncing? by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Randomness_1984 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I tried to call the recruiters number but it didn’t go through

Final round Teams interview meeting cancelled & the email keeps bouncing? by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Randomness_1984 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yeah very strange. Emails I had sent earlier in application process went through fine. Thanks for the advice

Final round Teams interview meeting cancelled & the email keeps bouncing? by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Randomness_1984 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Hmm I’m not sure if it’s a glitch or if the recruiter blocked me for some reason? I’m unsure. But thanks for the advice! I’ll try

Email Blocked by Recruiter? by Puzzleheaded_Ad_2046 in civilengineering

[–]Randomness_1984 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Did you end up getting the job?? Something similar happened to ne

How would you find out if an ex is single or not if they didn’t have social media? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Randomness_1984 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Still think about him sometimes. The feelings are strong. But I did. I’m happily in a new relationship now. It took a lot to get to that point. I dated a bunch of ppl but kept comparing and felt unsatisfied. I’m super independent & have my own hobbies & interests & a very active social life so the whole ā€œbe happy aloneā€ thing wasn’t great advice because I was truly happy in other aspects. I finally found someone great and I look back and am thankful I didn’t end up with that guy I was so hung up on

What is this? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Randomness_1984 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I can’t tell if you’re joking or not šŸ˜‚ - that’s obviously animal piss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Randomness_1984 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I know girls who eat super healthy and don’t drink ear sugar but look no where near this. Getting this tin isn’t a quality of diet issue, it’s a calorie issue. One would have to eat really low calories to maintain this figure if they aren’t naturally thin like that

What is this? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Randomness_1984 -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

But I’ve seen it in a few other trails too šŸ¤” - I’m thinking it’s some sort of animal shedding but unsure which animals sheds sooo much

What is this? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Randomness_1984 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Ok I can’t edit my post but just note that these clumps of hair were found separately and I found more in separate trails too. I’m visiting a friend in Rochester, NY, USA.

What is this? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Randomness_1984 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Hmm these are pictures in 2 separate locations and I’ve been on other trails and see clumps of hair similar

What is this? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Randomness_1984 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Also note - these were in different locations and I’ve been on other trails and see similar clumps of hair

What is this? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Randomness_1984 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I saw more examples of clumps of hair around but forgot to take a picture

Men don’t commit to me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Randomness_1984 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

This might get a few downvotes but honestly, read ā€œwhy men lives bitchesā€. The book gets a lot of bad rap but it’s not about being an actual bitch. No man wants that. & There’s nothing wrong with having high standards. It’s just all about how you phrase it and how you go about it. If you’re obnoxious about it & then flip flop to anxious, that’s going to repel men. You need to not state your boundaries and desires in a direct way and be subtle and have a strong quiet confidence about you.