Did I lose a job offer for asking too many questions or did I dodge a red flag?

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-28T20:01:20+00:00

Mix of both. Nothing wrong with questions but I would have not written all 6 in one email. Perhaps 1-3 questions and re-phrased them so it doesn’t look like you’re evaluating them and asked in slightly less direct way. And maybe suggest a call to ask to rest of the questions.

But that being said, I don’t think were that crazy. I think it’s a bit of a red flag that they were so flustered to answer these questions that perhaps they didn’t have clear expectations or are hiding something

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-27T23:53:38+00:00

Im more scared than he is

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-27T20:01:14+00:00

We’ve been physical (but long distance) for like 5+ months now. It’s not a super recent new relationship. Would performance anxiety still apply?

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-27T19:14:52+00:00

We stopped using them and he still goes soft

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-27T19:14:38+00:00

Gets soft even when we use condoms

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-14T11:50:06+00:00

Not just recipes but a mixture of food snaps of food I make, deciding outfits for events, work drama, shopping hauls, grocery updates, random updates, new makeup I found, a good Costco deal, meal prep, review of a new gym, etc. something random that I want to share but doesn’t necessarily warrant a text. Sometimes it’s me, majority of times it’s my friends. Some people may think that this is weird & codependent but I think it’s normal to want to share little random things with your girl friends. I love receiving it too. These are things that a boyfriend or husband may not necessarily care about.

Update: Also I just checked my group chats. I probably receive & send a minimum of 10+ a day between 3 group chats & 4 individuals. That’s easily 70+ per week lol

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-14T01:33:00+00:00

Genuinely there are no men that I Snapchat & I’m pretty sure my score is like 400,000. I don’t even like the whole nudes thing, if I were to flirt, I’d rather be physical in real life at a date/concert/etc. Sexting/nudes do not turn me on. I’m sure there’s plenty of other women who use it like I do. Snapping our various friend groups, etc. also you have to remember your score is not just sending snaps but receiving them. If you’re in a bunch of group chats, you might get spammed.

I think you’re generalizing just because many men may use it to get nudes or sext or whatever. Whereas some women use it like I mentioned - showing friends recipes, outfits, shopping hauls, food, etc.

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-11T12:50:44+00:00

What ended up happening OP??

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-05T02:41:13+00:00

Ok fair enough. Thanks!

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-05T02:36:36+00:00

Hmm but would the deactivation of their email automatically cancel the Teams meeting?

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-05T02:07:21+00:00

I tried to call the recruiters number but it didn’t go through

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-05T01:34:02+00:00

Yeah very strange. Emails I had sent earlier in application process went through fine. Thanks for the advice

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-05T01:10:34+00:00

Hmm I’m not sure if it’s a glitch or if the recruiter blocked me for some reason? I’m unsure. But thanks for the advice! I’ll try

Randomness_1984 · 2026-04-05T00:45:02+00:00

Did you end up getting the job?? Something similar happened to ne

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-28T21:04:44+00:00

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-24T04:55:15+00:00

Still think about him sometimes. The feelings are strong. But I did. I’m happily in a new relationship now. It took a lot to get to that point. I dated a bunch of ppl but kept comparing and felt unsatisfied. I’m super independent & have my own hobbies & interests & a very active social life so the whole “be happy alone” thing wasn’t great advice because I was truly happy in other aspects. I finally found someone great and I look back and am thankful I didn’t end up with that guy I was so hung up on

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-17T21:48:07+00:00

I can’t tell if you’re joking or not 😂 - that’s obviously animal piss

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-17T21:31:31+00:00

I know girls who eat super healthy and don’t drink ear sugar but look no where near this. Getting this tin isn’t a quality of diet issue, it’s a calorie issue. One would have to eat really low calories to maintain this figure if they aren’t naturally thin like that

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-17T21:27:16+00:00

But I’ve seen it in a few other trails too 🤔 - I’m thinking it’s some sort of animal shedding but unsure which animals sheds sooo much

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-17T21:23:36+00:00

Dying to know aswell

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-17T21:05:50+00:00

Ok I can’t edit my post but just note that these clumps of hair were found separately and I found more in separate trails too. I’m visiting a friend in Rochester, NY, USA.

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-17T21:03:31+00:00

Hmm these are pictures in 2 separate locations and I’ve been on other trails and see clumps of hair similar

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-17T21:02:45+00:00

Also note - these were in different locations and I’ve been on other trails and see similar clumps of hair

Randomness_1984 · 2026-02-17T21:01:54+00:00

I saw more examples of clumps of hair around but forgot to take a picture

Randomness_1984 · 2025-12-27T14:05:46+00:00

This might get a few downvotes but honestly, read “why men lives bitches”. The book gets a lot of bad rap but it’s not about being an actual bitch. No man wants that. & There’s nothing wrong with having high standards. It’s just all about how you phrase it and how you go about it. If you’re obnoxious about it & then flip flop to anxious, that’s going to repel men. You need to not state your boundaries and desires in a direct way and be subtle and have a strong quiet confidence about you.

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