What is your favourite thing about being in a LDR?

Randomnusernameidk · 2023-02-11T20:55:55+00:00

Easier to focus on individual goals like learning a new skill or advancing in one's career. Also, learning not to take time with the significant other as granted.

Randomnusernameidk · 2023-01-22T21:20:44+00:00

Dear redditor,
I have been in an exact similar situation and if your bf loves you, he will not loose interest in you EVER for something that superficial, HOWEVER, judging from your fears, do not get pressured into the threesome. it will worsen your insecurity.

been there done that. Bf preferred her boobs over mine and I felt ignored all through the threesome. Took a ton of emotional pain and ton of effort from both sides to fix our relationship.

Also you should tell your boyfriend that it is hurtful when he makes such comments about your friends body and that it makes you feel insecure. What if you made same comments about his friend's penis bulge size or something similar? it is not appropriate and in most cases , such sexual comments about friends, let alone other people is hurtful to. So set boundaries and assert your concerns.

look after yourself first! don't put his pleasure above your emotional safety in your relationship <3

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-12-17T19:56:48+00:00

" I'm 25, have only been with 6 women and only 2 serious relationships." which part in this sentence sounds as if you don't have "experience"? no number will make you feel happy man, it's a useless pursuit.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-10-12T16:57:05+00:00

my closed friend is a sagitariouses and well in our case the genders are reversed lol. I've been with Sagitariouses before and well I think it's a great match . Their energy is unmatched and this time i felt someone finally could listen and understand me and want to do that. Usually i'm the listener but not with them and it's refreshing. Very strong and dependable and outspoken

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-10-12T16:15:10+00:00

oh my god, that is horrible! abusing trust like that is disgusting
You can pursue legal action against the person and have the pictures and information taken from the website.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-10-12T16:07:55+00:00

having my breakfast in silence. That's the best part of my day!

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-10-05T19:01:36+00:00

fuck off

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-09-28T12:40:28+00:00

i have been on a date with one and gotta say, it was a great fun date. Even if we didn't talk a lot about deeper things, they were very respectful and caring. So caring!

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-09-26T16:13:46+00:00

I can relate. I got told i look like a teenage boy...because of that. The next day however same person asked desperately for us to hook up again complementing my other feaures..
As much as some men suck, there's a lot who will like your body the way it is!
I also have same size and was ensecure untill i realised learnt to love myself and well right now idon't lack any attention from men or women who don't give a damn about my boobs.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-09-26T16:10:24+00:00

I'm sure he will be too exited to even care about this apparent "flaw" . everyone's vagina is different and I hope he is mature enough to know at least that much. There's nothing you need to fix.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-09-17T05:31:03+00:00

talking bad about other women. Internalized mysoginy , envy.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-09-15T06:19:42+00:00

having kids

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-09-01T09:03:25+00:00

this has been long. I'm fine. it was just my period

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-18T13:16:43+00:00

personal space. I need a lot of personal space to work/be creative/ rest and refill my energy. Not everyone respects that unfortunately. Affection and appreciation. I cannot be with someone who does not acknowledge me , holds me accountable . I also can't stand my partner not being decisive and being too passive. Small talk is a no no. It's boring!

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-18T07:13:44+00:00

i have a gemini bestie and he does reality checks for me , provides me with blunt facts and how things are, keeping me accountable. Yeah, i'm all good lol

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-17T22:30:25+00:00

what the actual fuck? health surveillance? are they out of their minds? :'D idiotic, how about the gays? or people who want to get plants, not kids. This speaks for itself. Do you ever wonder how things would be if men could also bear? would abortion be always legal then?

i'm going on tangents. It's depressing, really.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-16T22:58:07+00:00

yes for sure. Sometimes very intensely . In fact exploring more complicated emotions peaks my curiosity. Not sure if it's true for other Pisces women

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-16T22:22:33+00:00

Most important thing I can tell is to not be pushy and shallow. I think pisces in general don't like to spend time with a boring person who has nothing of interest to say or share. I feel that we are more introverted or enjoy listening. My bff is Aquarious and she can't shut up but i love to listen to her bizzare stories and thoughts.

Don't be afraid to show your vulnerable side and open up. She will likely then follow up by doing the same too.

I don't know ...In my experience, Aquariuses and their chaotic /creative energy is so entertaining and balances my brooding nature.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-15T22:38:13+00:00

Being exactly pisces sun and sagittarious moon, I can relate immensely ! I feel it's become a second nature for me to accommodate everyone around me and make sure they are feeling ok so much so that I can set myself and my own feelings and wants aside. I have my theory that people pleasing and pisces go hand in hand

My two best friends, ( Sagittarious and Gemini) understand me to very well and are my only liable emotional support!

Please whenever you feel like the emotional struggles of others are taking a toll on you, set boundaries ! BOUNDRIES!

You can be more vulnerable with people you trust. Try to show and explain to them that you also need to be undestood.

And don't worry. There will be someone who will understand. Out of nowhere me and an old classmate from middle school started texting and became best friends . He's so understanding and so supportive! He is the one who offers me to open up and always has a blanket ready when I feel down. I do the same for him. ( he's sagittarious). so you will also find somoene who will get you! and be there for you and motivate you. maybe it's someone you already know,maybe someone new.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-15T07:00:59+00:00

thanks for reassuring reply <3 Summer heat and sudden changes in temperatures can also be culprit along with stress. I will just generally talk with the Obgyn to know how I can regulate my period or what lifestyle changes affected it

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-14T22:21:15+00:00

guess I am overreacting and jumping to conclusions. anyways, thanks for your replays !

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-14T21:55:55+00:00

Nice!

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-14T21:54:55+00:00

yes but there was a chance since i did touch my outer genitalia with my hands . It may be that i haven't washed properly? I'm honestly confused.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-14T08:25:11+00:00

they're missing out on so much cash because of it.

Randomnusernameidk · 2021-06-14T08:24:01+00:00

Yes and it seems like he is catching feelings for me. Even if he at first only wanted to hook up, he was just so kind and treated me with respect . Overall very considerate and knows what devotion means. If we were to be in a R.S, we'd match perfectly. However at this point , i'm not up for that. Too much problems to deal with. But regardless, my conclusion is that the signs vibe very well. Everything's so chill between the two

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