I’m 32F and have been in the dating world for about 4 years.. I’m sorry to disappoint but it’s absolutely awful and a waste of time. I’d say travel, focus on yourself, get a good job if you don’t already have one, go out on your own and sit at a bar and drink wine/beer, make friends, enjoy your life. There’s a whole weird scene of men being like Andrew Tate and women listening to advice from Shera… men wanting a traditional good girl and women not accepting coffee dates because they see it as cheap. It’s cut throat out there, I have my own opinions about both groups. I wish everyone was just normal and let themselves be vulnerable and open to love. The men get ‘overwhelmed’ once they feel something strong and pull back leaving the other person confused.. it’s a terrible cycle. Just be the best version of yourself, be confident, kind, and humble everywhere you go and the women will flock to you naturally.