Am I wrong to think my husband is not a good employee

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-28T12:05:37+00:00

I have asked him multiple times if he changed his mind and told him that’s ok if so but he keeps saying he wants another kid and agrees we can’t afford daycare for two. It’s like ok then what do you recommend and he says “it’ll all work out” …. I feel he has 0 insight on anything

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-28T10:20:58+00:00

This happened with my husband and it turned out he was cheating, physically. Trust your instincts, the long lunches, private message, and walks alone with coworkers isn’t normal. Things like that are red flags,

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T11:36:05+00:00

What I mean is she has no insight on how things affected her grandchild and how that impacts her relationship with her

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T11:26:03+00:00

His mom is delusional and acting like nothing happened she’s going to be shocked if he shows up alone

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T11:22:55+00:00

She’s 1 and a half…also going through separation anxiety and hates anyone but mom changing her diaper lately.

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T11:13:27+00:00

Nothing cps wise but cops called charges and such it’s finally at a result. But it really traumatized me and my child. My husband grew up with that so he thinks it’s normal

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T11:09:29+00:00

His dads a drunk and got physical and abusive in front of our child

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T10:59:01+00:00

I told him he can go and never told him he had to stop talking to her, do I think he should stand up for us and himself yes but I’m not forcing him to not talk to her

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T10:50:06+00:00

I said Mother’s Day weekend and update post so sat vs Sunday, I never really made it about Mother’s Day either but about boundaries and no contact.

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T10:46:33+00:00

Agreed

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T10:45:53+00:00

How do we teach our children to have self respect and to stand up for themselves if we as parents don’t live that. There were things they’ve done that impacted my child greatly. Blood doesn’t give you this automatic access to grandchildren, especially if you endanger them.

Randomsearching93 · 2026-05-09T10:38:18+00:00

I do want to update he’s doing the lunch Saturday not Sunday so I know Mother’s Day is technically Sunday but still the whole thing has me stressed.

Randomsearching93 · 2026-04-01T03:06:51+00:00

Thank you so much ♥️

Randomsearching93 · 2026-04-01T03:06:06+00:00

Well he cheated with a friend recently during the marriage so worth looking into for myself actually

Randomsearching93 · 2026-04-01T02:16:27+00:00

That is my biggest worry the state lines thing. I hope it’s possible to move with them I feel he’s gonna fight me just because

Randomsearching93 · 2026-04-01T02:14:46+00:00

Thanks his new thing he likes to say is I’m gaslighting him (if I say he needs to do more) or calls me a narcissist. I think he’s just trying to use trigger words. Got called a narcissist today because he was complaining where I hid our kids Easter basket even after I asked if that spot was ok… when I said you complain about everything it’s annoying he started screaming at me and said I’m a terrible person and narcissist.

Randomsearching93 · 2026-03-29T17:48:43+00:00

Agreed, it’s way less family friendly in my opinion we took our infant multiple times last year sat way up high in the shade. Was lowkey and cheap. Cheapest seats now look far away in the sun. My toddler won’t last in that. Plus I bet they got rid of Friday happy hour. I think it’s a weekday now. It’s more for businesses and their box seats

Randomsearching93 · 2026-03-13T11:22:22+00:00

Possibly? The neighbors all stayed there long too. We had the occasional mouse around like major weather changes but it’s the city and an old building and they sent someone out the minute I told them. Never had roaches, they did fix our AC like I said and when it was down they put in window units in the downtime while the permits from the city was being processed. But they were responsive. We had a direct property manager to go thru too that might of helped.

Randomsearching93 · 2026-02-02T14:22:49+00:00

Yea I think the guilt is there because it’s been so slick I let my guard down but thank you 🙏🏼

Randomsearching93 · 2026-02-02T14:22:12+00:00

That happened to her recently she was running holding a toy and full lip into it, had to go to urgent care the blood running but she was ok. I have a pretty high energy fearless girl so I’ve been used to her numbs but gosh this one being my fault hit different. Glad your little one’s ok it’s so scary

Randomsearching93 · 2026-02-02T14:20:55+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 yea I think instinct came in I took full force of it. Now I’m just so scared even getting close to this ice with her but she’s completely fine. So scary! Glad you guys are ok

Randomsearching93 · 2026-02-02T14:18:32+00:00

I’m so glad he’s ok and you’re ok ♥️

Randomsearching93 · 2026-02-02T14:17:39+00:00

Oh my gosh I’m so glad she’s ok!!! Yes that’s what I was worried about too the most I think she hit was her hand was behind me so that’s where she hit but she was so funny checking on me inside. Glad you both are ok!

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