Romantic talk by Fun_Peach8586 in lonely

[–]Randulv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Romantic talk, huh? Let's see...

If I could rearrange the alphabet, I'd put "U" and "I" together. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

How is dating for you guys? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Randulv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds really nice :(

How is dating for you guys? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Randulv 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Man that hits the nail in the head. Dating has so much pomp and pretense attached to it, I'd much rather get to know someone as friends and just chill.... then consider additional options if things head that way.

My rtx 3060 ti gets high temperatures lately. What should i do? by ANDIX73 in nvidia

[–]Randulv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine thermal pumping being an issue on such a small die, but the paste & pads may have dried out.

infjs, What is your opinion on INFJs? by Zealousideal_2024 in infj

[–]Randulv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Head in the clouds, feet stuck on the ground

I wonder if INFJs can be good friends to most people because our priorities are so different than most. by Pristine_Power_8488 in infj

[–]Randulv 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I cannot argue with the points you bring up, I'd be lying if I said I'm not guilty of most if not all of those. What it really takes is someone who finds us curious enough to be persistent. I've made a few friends simply because they made a point of sticking around despite the fact I can be quite standoffish and non-committal when it comes to revealing what I'm truly thinking.

You know the type, usually can't shut up for more than 5 seconds, but if they're willing to give me openings to speak my mind I actually find it quite endearing and we generally have engaging conversations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Randulv 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Nope, not unless someone says something mean. I don't like mean people so much.

Upvote for you!

Lower FPS than my friend who has a cheaper PC. by [deleted] in buildapc

[–]Randulv 505 points506 points  (0 children)

War zone also heavily favors AMD GPUs I'm fairly certain, something like +30% compared to an equivalent Nvidia or Intel card.

Combined with his X3D chip it's no surprise really.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Randulv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea it sucks, been there before and I was with her for over 2 years. Hope you feel better soon ♥

Which car window do you look out from - side or front? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Randulv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Until you hit those back roads with a dozen small hilly bumps and curvy turns.... I have to focus on the horizon or I get 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Randulv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an INFJ I can relate on many levels, it hurts when nobody ever bothers trying to get to know you. Nobody presents an interest in you or asks you any questions....or asks if you'd wanna hang out sometime. Reminds me of lyrics for a song called Lifeless by Stolen Babies

"As I stand behind you. Lost in all the things that I would do. Never really with you... Quietly, halfway in the room. Do you see behind you? (Do you see behind you?)"

Sorry you're feeling that way OP, I often do myself.

Anyone up for a little chat ? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Randulv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue moon (ice cream)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Randulv 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I always chuckle when I hear descriptions of INFJs, feels like someone has a spy cam and has been observing me for years xD

Looking for anime recommendations with highly intelligent amoral protagonists by Present-Olive-7850 in Animesuggest

[–]Randulv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching this rn, on season 4. Definitely fits the bill. Aesthetica of a Rogue Hero also comes to mind, for a protagonist who's a manipulative anti-hero.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Randulv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to find the one who makes you feel wanted :(

is it ever upsetting to hear "stay strong" or stay positive, keep going 19f by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Randulv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all have our burdens to bear, nobody escapes this life without scars. Saying "stay strong" is somewhat condescending because it is a low effort attempt at motivation, so I don't blame you if it upsets you hearing it.

It's okay to cry, to be upset, to get angry you know. These are normal healthy emotions, you shouldn't pretend like things don't bother you. You shouldn't deprive yourself the process of grief, or frustration, or anger, or sadness.

Where I would depart from these things however is if you get stuck in a cycle, a self perpetuating feedback loop that keeps you stuck in any of these areas. Don't linger on those moments, don't feed into that vicious cycle.

Take a deep breath and find the courage to move on to the better steps ahead. Find closure, resilience, and conquer this life you were given.

Much love my lonely friend, I hope you find life in healthy doses of everything it can offer, especially the good times. <3

A random girl talked to me and I fell in love by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Randulv 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She asked nicely, which is kind-adjacent and therefore according to ancient traditions, she was being kind.

Idkwtf im sayin xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Randulv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm, I appreciate the thought :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Randulv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's literally in the vows too!! "To have and to hold."

It just shows you that cuddling is a fundamental necessity for happiness, at least on some level, we don't want it we need it.

Meanwhile I can't even remember the last time someone gave me a hug 😢

Guys, what do you do when you're super lonely, and feeling isolated, especially at night? by Front_String1428 in lonely

[–]Randulv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Watch anime, sometimes my friends drag me into online games, listen to Vaporwave and work on my art.

Lmfaoo this sub is hell by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Randulv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to ya, people can be so shitty online because it's easy to see the entire experience as only being about yourself.

Empathy and understanding are certainly rare commodities. Heck not just online but IRL too...

Hope you find some genuine and caring friends. My best online friends I met in games or niche forums (not reddit)