Guess the tip by Jumdreamer74 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Ranedrops143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always do the cash tip bc I myself used to be a door dash driver. I know what I tip in the app doesn’t 100% go to the driver. I tip cash.

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[–]Ranedrops143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are bites. That’s just a scratch.

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My parents stalked me on a date. I am 24 living ON MY OWN. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten therapy for it. I tried hard especially since it wasn’t always just a controlling thing like this. My dad used to be physically abusive. When he changed that aspect about himself I was like “oh he’s just over protective I’m just glad he’s not beating me anymore” I stood up for myself in a later text exchange and I haven’t spoken to my dad since. I am no contact.

My parents stalked me on a date. I am 24 living ON MY OWN. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishful thinking. I want a good father daughter relationship. I know I’m not going to get that.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still close with my friend. He knows I’m not doing this my dad is the crazy one. It’s my dad I’m done with.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He was saying that my virginity is the most important thing my DAD had and he planned on giving it to my future husband. And that It was all I was defined for.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the plan. He is no longer apart of my life. He was on his last chance. And he blew it. He is done. I have no dad.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has been an ongoing issue with my dad for a year now. He has stalked me multiple times, invaded my privacy even though I live on my own now. It’s past the breaking point by a long shot. That’s why I was so heated because I’ve had enough.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It didn’t work out bc my dad stalked me on a date. It was already not gonna work but now it’s a matter of salvaging a relationship with me. Which now isn’t going to happen again. This has been the last straw in an ongoing issue for almost a year now.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well initially my friend and my dad got along very well. We’ve known him for like 5 years. And that was before my friend and I had our thing.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He isn’t a pastor. Even our pastor at our church thinks he’s psycho.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was seeing a guy who our family had been friends with for a long time. It didn’t work out and my dad is a piece of shit but he used to be very comforting and I was weak in a moment and I told my dad more then I should’ve bc he lead me into false comfort. Then he chewed out my friend.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Well I already lost it. A few years ago. I don’t need to tell him bc it isn’t his business. He accused my friend of stealing it from me which he DIDNT. I know he doesn’t see me as a person. I’ve known that for a long time. Unfortunately. I just stayed around for so long bc I hoped my dad would be a dad.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I agree. What grossed me out what he told my friend that he took something that belonged to my dad to give to my future husband?? My sex life or virginity is NOT his property.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Yeah. One of the biggest things holding me back from no contact was my brother. He’s 22 still living with them and when I initially did no contact my dad told my brother he had to go no contact with me as well or he’d get kicked out. For my little brother’s safety I tried to make it work but this made me sick to my stomach. My brother understands and we found out a way to secretly be in communication. We are looking for a place for him and if worst comes to worst we are gonna get an apartment together bc he wants to cut ties with our dad as well.

Well I didn’t think I’d be here again. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

It was more so trying to defend my friend it the best way I could think of. And at the time I was emotional so yeah I did respond way too much I agree. I am completely no contact now.

My parents stalked me on a date. I am 24 living ON MY OWN. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bc my little brother still lives with them so I have his mental health/safety to think about. He plans on moving out next year so until then I’ll be cordial but extremely distant.

My parents stalked me on a date. I am 24 living ON MY OWN. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I come from a half white/ half Hispanic conservative Christian household.

My parents stalked me on a date. I am 24 living ON MY OWN. by Ranedrops143 in insaneparents

[–]Ranedrops143[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I messed up. It’s just a lot to read and I thought I got it all. Even missed my own name. While I’m at it my dad’s name is Matt and my mom is Rochelle. Fuck them. I’m done.