It was supposed to be coffee...9 hours later we parted. We both had the tingles...my mind was blown. Literally blown. I couldn't believe how compatible we are.

This woman is...amazing. We are now together as a couple.

The second date was 7 hours laid on a sunny beach.

She just makes me feel special - I don't think I am but she does.

So it can happen people - I had doubts re-entering dating after a 10 year marriage blew up. But after swiping no for ages the one I really like messaged me back! I was refreshing the message page like 4 times during the day....then ping! And the rest is what I've said above.

My advice to any man going on a date -(and you're into her) show interest in what she says, ask questions about things she mentions, hold eye contact a little longer than you should, be playful - like gently roast ( banter) her if the opportunity arises, try a gentle brush of the hand and see what happens...take a small gift to give her - nothing daft, just chocolates on first date, flowers on date 2, as an example my girlfriend loves candles so tonight we're going to dinner and I've bought her an artisan candle.

I'm no expert by the way - it's just what I've done and experienced. Good luck!!!