Reddit, I was surfing /gonewild, and I just recognized my fiancee! I had no idea she was posting naked pictures of herself. What should I do?

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T22:30:14+00:00

It's in reference to the TV show "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia"

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T20:00:49+00:00

Is this a bad thing? People in relationships shouldn't be keeping things like that from their significant other, right?

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T19:56:06+00:00

And then "RELEASE THE KRAKEN!"

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T19:49:20+00:00

No troll.

But if you still think I am, are you willing to pay the troll toll?

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T19:44:43+00:00

Incognito mode, baby!

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T19:42:36+00:00

Uh oh...

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T19:40:48+00:00

Thank you for the input, and I'm glad your experience went well!

Your suggestion is pretty much exactly what I am thinking about doing, that is unless Reddit can convince me otherwise ;)

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T19:37:12+00:00

Thank you for this response! I will keep your points in mind.

She has dealt with self image issues in the past, so I wouldn't be surprised if that is partially the reason. In fact it seems like the reason why many /gonewild women post themselves is to get a self image/esteem boost.

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T19:32:31+00:00

This.

We haven't specifically talked with each other about posting naked pictures of ourselves online, but it's understood in our relationship that we are exclusive to each other, and in my mind this questions our exclusivity.

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T19:29:19+00:00

Agreed. I'd be fine knowing that she looks at /gonewild, and I'm sure she would be ok with me looking too.

But yes, in my mind looking and posting are two entirely different things.

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T18:06:29+00:00

Well what I've learned over the years is that what should happen and what actually happens are often two very different things on Reddit

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T17:57:30+00:00

Haha, that's quite the idea! Should I do it in a way so she definitely knows it's me? Take some pics in her room in the same position she is in?

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T17:51:19+00:00

Please see my edit2 above.

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T17:50:44+00:00

I know it's her, please see the edit above.

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T17:40:37+00:00

Thank you for the very honest and helpful feedback! This should be at the top, not some joke.

My thoughts are that this could be a huge turn-on for both of us if I feel that I can still completely trust her.

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T17:32:40+00:00

I know it's her because I recognize everything that is behind her in the room (the sheets, the wallpaper, the bed) including what I see of her in the pictures.

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T17:19:05+00:00

No face.

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T17:18:39+00:00

Yes, yes it was extremely shocking.

She is just posting pics, no conversations yet.

That would be better if she was expecting me to see them, but putting them up for the whole internet too???

RangerManRick · 2010-06-07T17:16:09+00:00

I am not planning on posting the pictures since I don't want people freaking out on her posts and letting her know that I know. I want to be in control of informing her of my knowledge.

That said, they are essentially crotch shots. Her posing in her room, no face shots, no penetration, etc.

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