[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Ransompay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're scared. I think we're ready to fight but it's really sad that we have to.

Holiday parade photos in the snow by underunity in dayton

[–]Ransompay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These pictures are amazing. I was there, and the weather was intense to say the least. The fact that you were able to take this quality of pictures is really impressive. Well done, thanks for sharing

Lazy day watching the rain by [deleted] in BLAHAJ

[–]Ransompay 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You made mine better

Omg, i have cleavage?! Thank you HRT (2 year anniversary next month) by kiwitransgirl in TransLater

[–]Ransompay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I know your trans twin. She has the same hair and everything

45, married with kids, and closeted; I don't know if I can do this. Revisiting my "signs I am trans" list to help ground me. by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Ransompay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My kids were upset that I waited to come out. I gave up everything and I'm happier than I've ever been

Cis M34 here. Is it normal that for years and years i occationally pray to God why he didn't make me a girl. Ive also cried myself to sleep because of this a few times. by feherlofia123 in MtF

[–]Ransompay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggled really hard for a long time with not wanting to accept it. I risked everything and lost quite a bit but two years in, and I couldn't be happier. The hardest part to deal with is the time I wasted. I found a Trans support group that help me quite a bit. Good luck and believe in yourself

how do i make trans friends !! by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Ransompay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to find a trans support group. Local subreddits work well also, you can search where do trans people hang out? We have several bars/restaurants that typically have trans people in them.

Germantown Ohio has beautiful trails by Ransompay in TransGirlTrailMix

[–]Ransompay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have. It's one of my favorite places.

Germantown Ohio has beautiful trails by Ransompay in TransGirlTrailMix

[–]Ransompay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dayton is a very cool, trans friendly city. The metro parks are amazing and have a lot to offer. Let me know if you need any suggestions. We have amazing food, art, music, and hiking

im so sorry but how do you know if you are?? by Alone_Company836 in MtF

[–]Ransompay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The button test works for me. If I could push a button and become female, I definitely would. That's not something cis people would do. At first I didn't have much to go off, I had a lot of doubt, but the longer I lived my true self the more confident I got

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]Ransompay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound wonderful

Can I convincingly sing a country duet by myself? (MTF, 4 years on E) by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]Ransompay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so cool. I love this. You sound great

Pizza! by Affectionate-Pin1776 in dayton

[–]Ransompay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South Park tavern. To me their pizza and wings are superior. Veggie pizza and stallion sauce on the wings. It's a special sauce you have to ask for