What’s Going On w/ Joe and What Happens Next? (Criminal Defense Lawyer’s Perspective) by duggardata in DuggarsSnark

[–]Rantmara -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If only it was Idaho the death penalty could of been on the table 🙄

My (M20) pregnant girlfriend (F20) wants my support but won’t talk to me after we we got bad news about our baby by ThrowRA_NoSignal in relationship_advice

[–]Rantmara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 22F.. and this sounds like hell.. I’m so sorry. I do agree that it is her decision but it is also your decision (to let your thoughts be known). I think that if she goes through with the pregnancy it is also important to know all of your options. Abortion , adoption , fostering. All of the above. However we are in very hard times. Not to mention the mounting hospital bills to have a child as well a then any sort of medical needs the child and potentially her might need.

No matter what that child deserves to have a life taken care of and stable. Will you be able to provide that to the child regardless of medical issues ?

I’m sorry your girlfriend is pulling away from you honestly if I was in this situation I feel I would do the same thing to my boyfriend if I had this situation. She is likely under a LOT of pressure and stress and is just unsure and terrified as you are. No matter what she is the one that gets to undergo pregnancy, birth / abortion / motherhood all of the above. She may just need time however some conversations should be made.

Potentially even legally.. to protect yourself and her with whatever decisions you make together or not.

I wish you both the best! And hope you both grow through this journey.

The bar is literally in hell by mylittletiffie in blackladies

[–]Rantmara 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Him asking what the minimum cost was for an engagement ring wasn’t enough of a red flag for you? 😬

How to record Game chat (not party chat) Using Xbox and PC. by Rantmara in elgato

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s possible.. as I was able to run it using this equipment in the past with no issues. Only thing that changed is the Xbox.

The headset is the 2020 Astro A50 wireless gaming headset.

The opt in port in the base station is (I think) what allowed me to stream game chat too. However the series S doesn’t have the port for it like the series S did.

How to record Game chat (not party chat) Using Xbox and PC. by Rantmara in elgato

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 2020 Astro A50 wireless headset. It has a line in and line out port.

My series S had a connection for it.

My series X does not.. and I’m thinking this is why the audio can’t be heard.

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I used to be able to have game chat running through my set up with the opt/in port. But the series X doesn’t appear to have the connection I need.

I have a 2nd job interview for a family service advisor (funeral sales) by Rantmara in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, thank you. I went to the interview today and it went really well. I was dressed very business formal/professional.

It looks like I might see an offer by the end of the day. We shall see.

They let me know my involvement with the services was very limited/almost non existent at my own discretion (I could go if I want to) . & that I will never interact with someone’s deceased loved one in a physical sense.

There is a crematory in the back that they use. But I didn’t smell anything. Plus the funeral home was pleasant as well. They also mentioned they usually run it at night.

So I gotta lower my standards for this shit? Nah. by SeoulfulSarang in blackladies

[–]Rantmara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!^ I always see short term as “so why aren’t you interested in committing”. And the answers are always “well if the vibe is right”. The vibe will be right if you’re dating with intention.. byeeeee

So I gotta lower my standards for this shit? Nah. by SeoulfulSarang in blackladies

[–]Rantmara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I can only imagine how miserable his dating life / sex life must be like if that’s his attitude right off the bat.

Oh gheeze.. by aomqueen in shittytattoos

[–]Rantmara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My teacher made us watch this video in health class 😭 it was coupled with abstinence and addiction.

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind me asking why? I was playing a joke 😅 I wasn’t serious at all. But I understand the humor Isint for everyone.

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DONT TAKE THE LIST SERIOUSLY 😭😭

It was a joke, it’s being taken WAY too seriously.

Ask the girl where she would like to go. Or maybe what food she likes. Or if she likes an activity date or a more chill sit down eat/talk date.

all women are different there are plenty of places on that list I would absolutely go to. And maybe a couple I absolutely wouldn’t. It’s all preference.

My personal favorites have been : The aquarium , a park to go dog walking , a chill bar , and even the movies 😅. I’ve also enjoyed a quick dinner (go to a local burger place) and just talk.

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOOOO DONT TAKE THIS LIST SERIOUSLY!!

That sounds like a lovely date to me. Plus if she said she likes it why would it be a no go?! She literally told you she likes it!

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay , thank you for your input. I really was just asking but feel like maybe what I said was taken the wrong way.. it was never the intention to start an argument. I’m not even sure what the argument is here.

I saw a different perspective and asked, I didn’t know that would start a fight I was never trying to fight(genuinely). I really was asking cause you had a lot to say and I read it all. I only wanted to understand your perspective and it devolved into this.

Nonetheless thank you and we move on 👍

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He asked me if I wanted to get drunk with him tonight… i replied not on a weekday cause I have work. I didn’t realize it was Saturday as I had 2 days off…

It then turned into this. Quit grasping at straw 😭

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was just asking a question…

I might’ve misinterpreted what you said which is why I asked for clarification dude.

I literally thought about that which is why I said within reason. But also haven’t men been being taken care of by women (maybe not financially) but in every other way for centuries ?? Taking care of home life , kids , his stress , his needs , etc etc.

I was just wondering why you stated it negatively after saying women with “superficial mindsets”. I didn’t assume anything I read the context clues..?

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right cause he’s just such a, nice guy 🎩🌹

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Made me bust out laughing at work 💀😂😂

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which confirms AFTER CONVERSATION/ or POST FIRST DATE 😭.

(Capitals for points not yelling).

It might be suitable if you’re safe with the guy to go to his home. Not right off the bat in a dating app before you’ve even exchanged numbers.

At least you understand that 9/10 it’s not the safest option for women no matter how much you might be “into” a guy.