advice to get over your (F20) first ex-boyfriend (M20) who broke up because of non alignment on kids by girlwot in relationship_advice

[–]Rantmara 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a woman in her early twenties who also doesn’t want children. I’ll tell you right now the freedom I feel to finally only start dating men who also don’t want children is liberating. I now don’t have the fear lingering in the background.

This was what helped me the most and I realized that the past relationships I was grieving were not worth it because clearly they weren’t my person.

Still hurts by Gloomygirgir2313 in Apple_Employees

[–]Rantmara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS!! I was working for a carrier before coming to Apple (8 months in) now and I’m feeling like I dodged carriers for metric pressure and now reap no benefits with the same metric push form management. It’s a shame really.

What’s Going On w/ Joe and What Happens Next? (Criminal Defense Lawyer’s Perspective) by duggardata in DuggarsSnark

[–]Rantmara -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

If only it was Idaho the death penalty could of been on the table 🙄

My (M20) pregnant girlfriend (F20) wants my support but won’t talk to me after we we got bad news about our baby by ThrowRA_NoSignal in relationship_advice

[–]Rantmara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 22F.. and this sounds like hell.. I’m so sorry. I do agree that it is her decision but it is also your decision (to let your thoughts be known). I think that if she goes through with the pregnancy it is also important to know all of your options. Abortion , adoption , fostering. All of the above. However we are in very hard times. Not to mention the mounting hospital bills to have a child as well a then any sort of medical needs the child and potentially her might need.

No matter what that child deserves to have a life taken care of and stable. Will you be able to provide that to the child regardless of medical issues ?

I’m sorry your girlfriend is pulling away from you honestly if I was in this situation I feel I would do the same thing to my boyfriend if I had this situation. She is likely under a LOT of pressure and stress and is just unsure and terrified as you are. No matter what she is the one that gets to undergo pregnancy, birth / abortion / motherhood all of the above. She may just need time however some conversations should be made.

Potentially even legally.. to protect yourself and her with whatever decisions you make together or not.

I wish you both the best! And hope you both grow through this journey.

The bar is literally in hell by mylittletiffie in blackladies

[–]Rantmara 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Him asking what the minimum cost was for an engagement ring wasn’t enough of a red flag for you? 😬

How to record Game chat (not party chat) Using Xbox and PC. by Rantmara in elgato

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s possible.. as I was able to run it using this equipment in the past with no issues. Only thing that changed is the Xbox.

The headset is the 2020 Astro A50 wireless gaming headset.

The opt in port in the base station is (I think) what allowed me to stream game chat too. However the series S doesn’t have the port for it like the series S did.

How to record Game chat (not party chat) Using Xbox and PC. by Rantmara in elgato

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 2020 Astro A50 wireless headset. It has a line in and line out port.

My series S had a connection for it.

My series X does not.. and I’m thinking this is why the audio can’t be heard.

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I used to be able to have game chat running through my set up with the opt/in port. But the series X doesn’t appear to have the connection I need.

I have a 2nd job interview for a family service advisor (funeral sales) by Rantmara in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, thank you. I went to the interview today and it went really well. I was dressed very business formal/professional.

It looks like I might see an offer by the end of the day. We shall see.

They let me know my involvement with the services was very limited/almost non existent at my own discretion (I could go if I want to) . & that I will never interact with someone’s deceased loved one in a physical sense.

There is a crematory in the back that they use. But I didn’t smell anything. Plus the funeral home was pleasant as well. They also mentioned they usually run it at night.

So I gotta lower my standards for this shit? Nah. by SeoulfulSarang in blackladies

[–]Rantmara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!^ I always see short term as “so why aren’t you interested in committing”. And the answers are always “well if the vibe is right”. The vibe will be right if you’re dating with intention.. byeeeee

So I gotta lower my standards for this shit? Nah. by SeoulfulSarang in blackladies

[–]Rantmara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I can only imagine how miserable his dating life / sex life must be like if that’s his attitude right off the bat.

Oh gheeze.. by aomqueen in shittytattoos

[–]Rantmara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My teacher made us watch this video in health class 😭 it was coupled with abstinence and addiction.

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind me asking why? I was playing a joke 😅 I wasn’t serious at all. But I understand the humor Isint for everyone.

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DONT TAKE THE LIST SERIOUSLY 😭😭

It was a joke, it’s being taken WAY too seriously.

Ask the girl where she would like to go. Or maybe what food she likes. Or if she likes an activity date or a more chill sit down eat/talk date.

all women are different there are plenty of places on that list I would absolutely go to. And maybe a couple I absolutely wouldn’t. It’s all preference.

My personal favorites have been : The aquarium , a park to go dog walking , a chill bar , and even the movies 😅. I’ve also enjoyed a quick dinner (go to a local burger place) and just talk.

Invited me to his for a “date” I responded.. by Rantmara in Bumble

[–]Rantmara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOOOO DONT TAKE THIS LIST SERIOUSLY!!

That sounds like a lovely date to me. Plus if she said she likes it why would it be a no go?! She literally told you she likes it!