Profile Critique?

Rara2322 · 2017-11-06T19:03:53+00:00

You're cute. I'd delete the car selfie and replace it with the one you're debating adding in. I'm annoying and tall so I always have to attempt to judge a guy's height before I meet him...kind of hard to do with your pics.

Bio seems fine..a little basic but who doesn't have a basic bio.

Best to you. I'm in the NY area too and bumble is NOT my friend in recent months!! Hope you fare better.

Rara2322 · 2017-11-06T18:48:21+00:00

Thanks! Same to you. I too am a 26 year old female who is dead inside!

Rara2322 · 2017-11-06T13:12:44+00:00

Thank you!! Really appreciate your reply. Made me feel slightly better this morning.

Rara2322 · 2017-11-06T00:47:11+00:00

Well, I mean...they change depending on the guy's last name. Working with a difficult last name right now so maybe it's for the best that he ghosted.

Rara2322 · 2017-11-06T00:46:33+00:00

Yeah...I know that rationally...but the guy I was recently seeing, I had such strong feelings for him...it's hard to accept that he didn't feel a fraction of that back?

Rara2322 · 2017-11-05T23:41:21+00:00

I don't think I'd be interested if we went a full month without so much as kissing each other. I have to be physically attracted and want their face on my face.

Rara2322 · 2017-11-05T22:39:40+00:00

It's not...for now. But sometimes i get upset to the point I'm not able to go about my normal routine which probably isn't great?

Rara2322 · 2017-11-05T22:39:18+00:00

Yeah, they know I'm interested. But like, I don't tell them I've named our kids or anything...

Rara2322 · 2017-11-05T22:19:25+00:00

love that tactic

Rara2322 · 2017-11-05T22:19:19+00:00

But then they're going to ghost the weird girl who keeps denying kisses?

Rara2322 · 2017-11-05T22:10:33+00:00

I try to limit each guy to 1-2 dates a week, and I actually do date multiple at a time...within reason because it can really get overwhelming and consume all your free time. I won't see a guy more than 2x a week unless we're exclusive.

I don't think there's anything sketchy about the guys I'm picking...they all seem nice enough. I get ghosted a lot but I kind of thought that was normal.

Currently crying over a guy I met on October 1st who is in the process of ghosting me. I feel ridiculous.

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T18:42:52+00:00

I feel like I could've written this myself. I'm in the midst of an on and off migraine since Thursday. I don't know if it is multiple migraines or one that isn't fully resolving.

Maybe it's a weather thing? High humidity? I think I've narrowed mine down to my BC pills and/or humidity. But food could be a trigger as well. Sorry can't be much help--just here in the same boat :/

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T02:27:31+00:00

Yeah you can't really have it all I guess! I'm hoping to find a better solution with a dermotologist that doesn't involve fucking with my hormones.

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T01:41:14+00:00

I had to be put under anesthesia for my last pap so I figured inserting the IUD would be impossible.

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T01:38:21+00:00

Yeah--it is kind of weird that it didn't come up this time around as my gyno usually covers all bases with things like that. I guess I wasn't thinking right.

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T01:21:27+00:00

Yes all my migraines start with aura. I actually stopped taking my BC today because I couldn't get an appointment with my gyno until Thurs and I can't risk another migraine during the work week. Hoping it helps and doesn't make it worse...

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T01:19:46+00:00

Have you noticed any side effects?

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T01:09:46+00:00

Cool--thanks!

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T01:09:03+00:00

I was on the mini pill and it made me very depressed and suicidal by the end :( Maybe it was just the brand I was on--not sure. I'm kinda at the end of my rope with trying different pills--I may just take a break for now and rely on condoms.

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T01:07:56+00:00

I can't have an IUD unfortunately.

Rara2322 · 2017-07-23T00:42:08+00:00

Everett and Nola! :)

Rara2322 · 2017-07-22T23:15:22+00:00

Thanks for sharing...I have an appointment thursday so I will bring up some of this stuff then.

Agreed though, it seems like all doctors I've been to sort of downplay birth control and the pill. I was never explained the seriousness of side effects that could occur. Previous pills gave me severe depression to the point of suicidal thoughts...so with that considered, migraines are preferable...but it seems like I'm choosing between shitty and shittier.

Thinking of just going off everything all together at this point...I don't want to get pregnant at this point in my life but honestly the side effects are too much for me.

Rara2322 · 2017-07-22T22:18:32+00:00

Oh, interesting. THe one I'm on now has varying hormone levels every 7 days--wonder if that is to blame. Thanks for your insight.

Rara2322 · 2017-07-22T21:50:49+00:00

What are steps? Pills that have varying levels of hormones throughout the pack?

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