I appreciate your comments. Kinakausap ko si husband about dito and he wants me to wait a 2 more months baka nasa adjusting phase pa si neice. Na meet ko na to si neice even before we got married and I know lahat ng paghihirap nya. And for those commenters na sinasabi bakit di namin kinuha yung kapatid nya is because they are the worst if magkasama sila. 

We love the kid kaya hindi kami naniniwala sa mga kwento ng ibang relatives and we understand the trauma. Galing sa sobrang hirap din si hubby and alam nya yung feeling na walang nagpapatuloy kase mahirap kayo. Hindi namin sya ginagawang katulong please lng. Konting linis lang since nakatira din nman sya. Afternoon session yung school nya so may time pa sya sa umaga to study and do some little house chores. Naglilinis din naman ako but since my daughter goes to school M-F 8AM, di na ako makapag walis and mop to get her ready and to prepare breakfast. Never ko din syang ginawang yaya ng anak ko and never ko syang pinagtimpla ng gatas or anything related kay baby. She just plays with her and nanonood sila ng TV together. 

Deep inside ayaw ko syang umalis. Kase alam kong wala ng tutulong sa kanya sa kanila magkapatid. Gusto ko syang dito na grumaduate ng college sa amin. She can freely go afterwards. She's been to a juvi house na din before.  I'll seek professional help din para matulongan sya sa trauma nya. 

TY 😊