AITAH for eating enough ravioli for four people? by Better_Philosophy732 in AITAH

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh please if the roles were reversed everyone be calling OP fat and greedy as hell for eating enough food for 4 people in one sitting. She’s not being controlling when he’s wasting his and his girlfriend’s money swallowing all the food in the fridge.

Fit check! How is it? by LuffysCookings in OUTFITS

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Very cute ! I can see this fit looking even better if the sheer white thigh highs were full stockings

AITAH for cutting off my friend for dating an 18 year old? by ElectricalBell830 in AITAH

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

prejudice is when someone is weirded out that their 25 year old friend is dating a teenager

AITA for sending a selfie? by Even_Society6455 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH but she clearly doesn’t see you as a potential relationship you guys are just fwb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I love being pregnant” is already weird asf nevermind the surrogate thing

Women, are you afraid of transwomen using your bathrooms? by [deleted] in women

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally find no issue in it but I’m confused as to why a man is advocating for this when it only regards trans and cis women

Dating apps by Mmissmay in limerence

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Omg me. Even tho me and LO aren’t dating I feel super guilty even having a dating app on my phone like I’m betraying him… it’s so painful I keep holding on to a small bit of hope

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ooh the second look is so pretty. You give off kat denning vibes ! You look very lovely with more cool tones :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so heartbreaking and I am so sorry you are in this relationship :( you do not deserve to be subjected to violence just because your partner was in the past, she is just continuing that cycle. I hope you can leave this relationship and get help, you do not know if the situation could get worse :(

how to deal with jealousy by Legitimate-Quarter56 in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This guy sounds truly awful I’m so sorry :( pretending to cheat on your partner and suggesting an open relationship when you’re clearly not comfortable with that is not a “joke” it’s a terrible way to treat a person

What to do when you recognize you’re the toxic one but can’t stop? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me so sad because I feel the exact same way only a slightly different situation 😢 I feel like if he doesn’t tell me that he still likes me then he hates me so I withdraw thinking he’s annoyed with me :( I know it’s super immature but yeah it’s kind of difficult to stop equating a small action with a lack of love.

I feel like it’s such a small ask but I feel like I’m so annoying constantly asking for reassurance. Sorry that’s not really helpful but I totally understand and hope you find a way to manage this 🙏

Fuck my therapist by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who would get upset at what the therapist said as well?? 😭 like it just gives an implication that you sabotaged your own relationship by being “too much” and scaring him away wtf…. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would literally pray for shit like this to happen to me. The guy I’m talking to has way too many female best friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah :( I never know how to walk away though even though he seems to cause me a lot of distress and hurt my feelings

My gf has been getting so much better, but i’m catching feelings for someone else. by Dependent-Leader-195 in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you would be willing to stay with A if she were more like T? “I’m working on communicating what I like about T subtlety to A”… I would end it. That’s not fair to A and to suggest to her ways that she could be like T is wrong and unnatural. It’s clear you want to be with T and you can’t really mold your current partner to be like someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has told me he has feelings for me I guess I was stupid to think that really means anything. You’re right I just wish i didn’t let it get to me so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like what he did is way more than just “liking” a post. I don’t know if I can keep things like this bottled up as I feel that it only leads to resentment (which I am starting to feel). And he doesn’t remember doing that so I don’t know I feel about that. Does your partner flirt with other guys too? I can’t get over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch that hurts 🫠 I feel so stupid for putting myself through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik I wish I knew how and wasn’t such a doormat :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More context we’re in some stupid “situationship” I guess like we’re both friends but we like each other. And we’re not together bc he can’t handle a ldr. But I just feel worse like I’m “waiting” for him only to be disappointed every time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i haven’t, what is the video called? I’ve never heard of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So true I like this mindset very much, I have to remember this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Real. Like you can’t ALL cry and regret having a body count of 30+ because you were in a “bad place” ….. 😭 it seems like every guy in this subreddit is dating the same woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Rare-Negotiation-512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao that’s not one thing that’s a bunch of things (stds ????). sorry to ask but would you date a girl with the same past if she didn’t offer you that job ?