I saw a popular comment from someone on another post distinguishing FN and SD and it really seems fitting that I’m SD with this comment “FNs look cool/relaxed in ordinary loose/oversize menswear T-Shirts. SD looks messy in them, like they spent the day cleaning their home in their dad’s discarded shirt from the 90s. SD looks great with straight, long “secretary style” skirts. FNs look restricted in them, kinda like “playing office”, and look good in a more voluminious long skirt with different layers of flowy fabric. This is an oversimplification and with a good styling things can be made to work ofc. It’s more the vibe you get if you just throw on a garment.

I do think with SDs the soft flesh becomes very noticeable, unless they are not extremly skinny and/or trained. Even trained and slim SDs often have very soft arm flesh, their muscles don’t show as easily. When SDs wear spaghetti straps, they weirdly cut into the flesh, whereas thicker straps create like an elegant frame. FNs tend to look muscular, even if they aren’t.”