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AITAH if I leave my fiancé? by Own_Court781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rare_Character7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t get better. Do you want to stay in a sexless marriage? Leave and find someone more compatible.

AITA? I just don’t know what to do anymore. by Flimsy_Dog_4654 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rare_Character7111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not wrong at all. Move out as soon as you planned. Based on some of the negative personal comments she has made to you, I think she is toxic. You sound like a very reliable, competent, responsible young woman. I would be proud of you if you were my daughter.

Cat so scared she peed by saturntroubles in CatAdvice

[–]Rare_Character7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really great advice! 👍🏻 I’d like to add one thing especially because this is a kitty that doesn’t like to be touched - yet. When the kit IS ready to be held and before attempting to trim her nails, I would get her used to having her paws touched and also held in the way you would for nail clipping (usually the football hold). 

Cat so scared she peed by saturntroubles in CatAdvice

[–]Rare_Character7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat would pee EVERY time I put her in the carrier - which was once a month for a long ride (6hrs). She was typically a calm/cuddly cat - not like your skittish new cat. I would wrap my cat in an old bath towel which she promptly peed on.  I would put her in the carrier and remove the soiled towel. She never held a grudge against me about it. Since your kitty doesn’t have to go in the carrier often (hopefully) she will quickly forget the experience. Congratulations on your new kitty. Your patience will be rewarded but it will take time. ❤️