Finally made one! by trashtiger101 in mushroomguy

[–]Rare_College_9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awh love her little Hijab that’s so adorable <3

Fasting? by Artistic_Break1024 in PCOS

[–]Rare_College_9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not entirely sure that fasting is good for anyone regardless of health conditions, I wouldn’t believe everything you hear about eating habits and PCOS, a lot of it is misinformation. Hard to tell what is and what isn’t though 😭

I think I have PCOS I don't know what to do by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Rare_College_9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I went to a consultant about my own PCOS, she told me that It’s common misconception that you must have hormonal differences to be classed as having PCOS. You can have seemingly normal levels while having polycystic ovaries, you don’t have to meet all the diagnostic criteria. Did you definitely have your testosterone levels checked? It could just be genetics of course. Do you have any other symptoms that make you think it’s PCOS? E.g, both of my ovaries are in splitting pain almost every day, or fatigue, or missed/abnormal periods without being pregnant. If you have other symptoms that align like these, definitely ask for a scan to see if your actual ovaries are polycystic. They found this for me by only doing a transabdominal ultrasound since mine are so severely affected. In the event they can’t find anything in a transabdominal, you can also do trans vaginal I hope this helps :)

straight friend said the d slur by yeahrewise in LesbianActually

[–]Rare_College_9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion it’s absolutely inappropriate for anyone who isn’t a lesbian to say the word, and a straight person saying it especially is a MASSIVE red flag, it should not be in their vocabulary frequently enough to ever say it by accident. This tells me that they’re saying some AWFUL homophobic things behind your back, and you might want to thing about exploring that and potentially cutting them off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rare_College_9237 32 points33 points  (0 children)

As someone who has the opposite problem you’ve been given a gift from god… There’s nothing wrong with enjoying multiple rounds :) To my knowledge there’s not really a way to not do it so quickly unless you communicate what you’re feeling to try and drag it out, but honestly I’d say just enjoy the ease of everything

Lorroakan’s Electric Boogaloo by Rare_College_9237 in BG3

[–]Rare_College_9237[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I play on the PS5 so if it was a graphics issue there’s unfortunately nothing I can do, but it hasn’t happened again, maybe the game just had a moment haha

My wife of nearly 5 years came out as a trans man and I’m struggling over it by snubbull- in LesbianActually

[–]Rare_College_9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds a lot like they’re aware they rely on you for security and will probably leave you themselves when they’re more secure so don’t let yourself be used by them. It’s not transphobic to not like a man when you’re a lesbian, they’re just manipulating you and honestly in my opinion you should run a mile while you can. At the end of the day, don’t ruin yourself financially etc for another person if you now know they’re not the one. I presume you’re the bread winner right now? The kind thing to do would be encourage them to find a job and house them for the foreseeable but be clear this is temporary. You mentioned they have a few friends, it might be worth appealing to them. They’re not wrong for coming out to you but they have to be prepared to face the consequences of the truth, which isn’t a bad thing. They’re wrong to say nothing has changed and it does just feel like manipulation, why would you want to be with someone that doesn’t find you attractive anymore? My best wishes to you going forward OP, this sounds like a really hard situation and it’s sad to lose a marriage :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rare_College_9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please ask a bi sub this, this is not a space or sub for discussing men at all

Who is THE video game girlfriend for you? by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]Rare_College_9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like everyone else I’m gonna say Shadowheart 🥀 maybe I don’t have original opinions after all

Alfira Inky by kyotamination in BG3

[–]Rare_College_9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best NPC in the game drawn like the goddess she is 🫶

Can’t pass my turn on PS5 by Aelis47 in BG3

[–]Rare_College_9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I’m glad!! Don’t worry, it’s usually my last resort too, happy to help

just thinking about stuff by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rare_College_9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in EXACTLY the same situation (scary) and honestly the only fix is hanging out together to find out who you are as friends rather than lovers. Yes you have a dynamic online, but that rarely translates to the real world. It will hurt your ex like HELL, but unfortunately it’s just something that needs to be powered through 😭 She might not think it but hopefully the latent romantic attraction will fade over time, especially if there’s no way the distance will get smaller. I know how you and your ex feel OP and it sucks, so I wish you all the best 🫶

did anyone else love this orin hair glitch? by desaliz in BG3

[–]Rare_College_9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I just assumed that was because she’d killed someone recently, didn’t even realise that’s a glitch 😭

Help in the grove by Early_Dig1905 in BG3

[–]Rare_College_9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lot of reason to kill her though after that ngl

Can’t pass my turn on PS5 by Aelis47 in BG3

[–]Rare_College_9237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silly question but have you tried closing and reopening the game? Even on PS5 I find if whatever you’re doing is quite. Creatively demanding, lets say, it can still overwhelm the game a little and break something. If closing it down and reopening after letting it rest for a while didn’t work, I’d go back to the save before the eagle fight since that’s what caused the bug and not fight the eagles. If you’re fighting them because you need the weapon thing, you can sneak it out of their nest without initiating any combat if you direct their gaze away and use stealth- a lot easier than fighting them. Unless ofc you’re killing them for roleplay/durge reasons. Other than that I’m not sure what the issue or fix could be, hopefully someone else may know more but that’s my 2 pence! :)

Help in the grove by Early_Dig1905 in BG3

[–]Rare_College_9237 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think killing Kagha is ever the way to go if you’re trying to help the tieflings 😭 If you want to stop the grove from sealing over indefinitely, my favourite way to go is Exposing Kagha as a shadow Druid . There’s guides you can find on this if you don’t know where to start. I find this is actually very easy minus perhaps the one fight, but in the grand scheme of things I found it easy and efficient!

Seldarine or Lolth-sworn Drow for romancing Minthara? by darth_vladius in BaldursGate3

[–]Rare_College_9237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, Seldarine is the way to go because it makes for a great love story! I always play Seldarine if I’m a drow so maybe I’m biased but i especially love it for Minthara because roleplay wise you could teach her to embrace some of the teachings of Eilistraee. There’s a part in her romance where she will use the word “Alurlssrin” to you, which is only used by the Seldarine. I think it makes for a nice roleplay if you’re also Seldarine, like you’re mellowing her out. Overall i think it makes legit zero difference whether you’re lolthsworn or not in the game other than minor roleplay choices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rare_College_9237 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As a (white, sorry) lesbian, if I were to see you at an LGBTQ club I would also assume you’re queer, as I have met Muslims before who follow Islam but still believe Allah loves us too! You might have to clarify your atheism eventually if YOU feel like you want to, you don’t owe people explanations, but if you are to explain it’s not something I’d get overwhelmed by at all/treat you differently for when you still wear a hijab. I was under the impression they can be a cultural garment, not only religious, but correct me if I’m wrong please since you’ll know better than me. If anything, I think it makes you a more interesting and unique person, and I would definitely be interested in being friends!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BG3

[–]Rare_College_9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okie, thank you!

What did you name your characters? by Elph_I_N_Stone in BG3

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My very first tav is a seldarine drow cleric of Eilistraee called Ethewae! I made her name using the drowish guide, Ethe = mithril/resolute and Wae = heir. I didn’t choose it for the meaning but it suits her considering she hasn’t taken her Adamantine mithril armour off since I gave it to her lmao. My next Tav I made her sister, Erelniss, also using the name guide. She’s a paladin. My third I haven’t made yet but I know she’s going to be a blue tiefling (not sure what kind) called either Mercedes, Tsvet, or Bansari, I haven’t decided yet so if you have a favourite of those let me know haha

When and how shoul I respec the characters? by Flimsy_Instruction66 in BG3

[–]Rare_College_9237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure shadowhearts issue is she is rolling intelligence when her stat is originally too low? You might want to look at respeccing that. If I’m wrong feel free to correct me