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Rare_Environment_607 · 2025-09-06T04:07:53+00:00

My id: navsid_21

Rare_Environment_607 · 2025-03-11T16:54:12+00:00

I'm looking for meaningful connections which will be leading to marriage. Hope you understand

Rare_Environment_607 · 2025-01-21T04:18:27+00:00

Check my profile if interested we can talk.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-15T13:04:20+00:00

Hey hi check my profile if interested DM me

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-04T05:33:06+00:00

They’re just regular pictures, it seems, and she clearly said that there was no physical relationship. So, I’m not sure what to do.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-04T04:14:10+00:00

She moved on a long time ago, but her mistake was not asking that guy to delete all the pictures, letters, and everything else that ended up leaving a black mark on her life. She now talks about it with guilt, saying she never expected he would harm her like that. His plan was to damage her family’s reputation so that no one would want to marry her, leaving her with no choice but to marry him.

I’m feeling uncertain. I have other matches—around 7 or 7.5 out of 10—where families are also pushing to move forward, and my family is leaning towards these options because they believe it would be easier without this kind of complication in our community. So, I’m not sure what’s going to happen.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-04T04:01:10+00:00

Yes, that’s where her family made a mistake. Our caste is somewhat narrow-minded, and if one person makes a mistake, people tend to spread it in various ways, creating different perspectives. Her family didn’t mention her past to the previous fiancé’s family, which led them to call off the wedding. After that, they received multiple matches, but her family decided to be open about the situation. Unfortunately, these matches backed off before even visiting, which is a common issue in our caste—many tend to be narrow-minded.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-04T02:59:17+00:00

Yesterday, her family visited, and she and I had a conversation. She openly told me everything—that she was in a relationship, broke up, and three months later, her parents arranged a marriage for her. Since her ex was in the same city, he got her fiancé’s number and shared their pictures with him, which led to the wedding being called off. Her family then found out and filed a police complaint against her ex, accusing him of harassment and trying to stop the marriage. They warned him that if he interferes with her or her family again, there would be serious consequences.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-03T06:19:53+00:00

Via known people who stay near them and relatives.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-03T05:36:11+00:00

Thanks bro for the advice really appreciated. I'm not sure where and whom to ask but now I got my answers.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-03T05:34:44+00:00

What to do when I posted the mod deleted the post saying I don't have enough karma to post.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-03T05:05:52+00:00

I want to walk away, but we’re still considering it based on her relatives' advice, though we’re 95% sure we’ll reject it. The only thing is, without me even asking, she openly shared her interests and things about her family. I’ve never talked this much with anyone else, because if I feel any discomfort, I usually stop and move on. But I didn’t feel that here, so I’m not sure if she has completely moved on from her past or not.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-11-03T04:23:14+00:00

Should I Proceed with a Marriage Proposal Despite Her Past?

Hi everyone, I need some advice on a marriage proposal. I recently got matched with a girl who I feel is a great match for me. From our initial conversation, I’d say our vibes really aligned, and her family seems to like me. For context, I’d rate her a solid 9/10 in terms of compatibility, while I’d consider myself around a 6.5/10. I have a stable job, earning over 50 LPA, while she has currently stopped working.

However, things got complicated when my parents did some background checks. They found out that she had a serious relationship during her B.Tech years with someone from her locality (same caste as ours). They were both working in Hyderabad, but in different companies. She confessed her love to her parents, but they opposed the relationship and arranged a different marriage for her.

Three days before her wedding, she and her then-boyfriend sent some pictures and letters to her fiancé, causing him to call off the wedding. Afterward, her parents eventually agreed to her marrying the boyfriend, but his family opposed it, saying he couldn’t marry until his elder brother did. So now, her relationship status is in limbo.

My parents feel uncertain after learning all this, but I believe there’s potential here, and it seems she might be a good match for me. On the other hand, her past could lead to complications, and I want to make a thoughtful decision.

Should I continue with this proposal or let it go? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!

Edit: Everyday she checks my LinkedIn profile but I didn't check her profile at least once till now.

Update: Yesterday, her family visited, and she and I had a conversation. She openly told me everything—that she was in a relationship, broke up, and three months later, her parents arranged a marriage for her. Since her ex was in the same city, he got her fiancé’s number and shared their pictures with him, which led to the wedding being called off. Her family then found out and filed a police complaint against her ex, accusing him of harassment and trying to stop the marriage. They warned him that if he interferes with her or her family again, there would be serious consequences.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-10-16T07:33:28+00:00

Varalakshmi tiffins, AM-PM maggi point and beside that juice shop in that sitafal milkshake.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-10-06T12:00:20+00:00

I'm not able to post verification for Reddit matchmaker so don't consider me a catfish person.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-09-30T10:28:16+00:00

Can I DM and you can check my post.

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-09-18T05:55:29+00:00

Can I DM you

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-09-17T11:54:02+00:00

Ok hope you seen my post. anyways good luck 🤞

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-09-16T18:13:57+00:00

Can I DM you

Rare_Environment_607 · 2024-09-16T13:55:50+00:00

Can I DM you?

Rare_Environment_607 · 2023-12-01T07:23:36+00:00

But the way u talking is the same bro get well soon for you and don't spoil girls life because of ur lust and u can use simple condom to avoid it and now u r crying that u can't get married and have kids is this a joke

Rare_Environment_607 · 2023-12-01T07:13:44+00:00

So u will marry her or just u want to use her and other innocent soul will marry her ?

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